Breakfast, tiffs, and hand-holding: These guys show us how to own writing personal vows #Ceremony Advice#vow examples#writing vows February 8 2016 | Catherine Clark bijouxandbits Photos by: Burlap & Blossom Photos by Burlap & Blossom Related Post Wedding vows that include ice cream, sweet promises and… beating people up Amanda recently shared with us her husband's incredible vows. They each wrote their own vows, and kept them secret from each other until they read... Read more Ben and Joanna's Latin American fiesta wedding had some killer details like authentic Mexican fare, tap dancing, and a live jazz band. But their hand-written and super sweet vows stole our hearts. Want to hear them? I knew you would. Let's see how they incorporated breakfast, tiffs, hand-holding, and support systems to craft super personal vows. Minster (M) to Ben: Do you promise to tuck Joanna into bed and make her breakfast in bed every morning, and to tell her a new reason why you love her every single day, and to make her feel good and protected as much as humanly possible? M to Jo: Do you promise to always talk through arguments and resolve tiffs with Ben before you fall asleep, so that he can always enter dreams comforted and protected? M to Ben: Do you vow to be open to trying new things with Joanna, such as ballroom dance and even tango lessons, to make her laugh and squeeze her hand very tightly when you are holding it, and to cherish and encourage her unconditionally for all the days of your life? M to Jo: Do you vow to always celebrate Ben’s accomplishments, minor and major, be a strong support system to help guide him through the hard times, and be the number one mega fan of your one true love and best friend every day of your life? Ben says: With this ring I do promise to be loving, honest, goofy, and supportive toward this woman, with whom I will spend the rest of my life as her partner, lover, and one true confidant. Jo says: I knew half way into our first date six years ago that I’d finally found my person, and that we were meant to be life partners, and with this ring I do promise that I will do my part, 300 percent, to make our decision to be husband and wife, the best decision of our lifetimes. More vow examples Will these geeky wedding vows save your ceremony? Always. Fellow gamers, book-lovers, pop culture fiends, Potterphiles, Browncoats, Tolkien fans, Whovians, and zombie apocalypse fighters, and all other forms of geekdom in need of nerd-tinged, geeky wedding vows... these reader-submitted… Read More Hilarious, tear-jerking, and realistic wedding vow ideas from readers We've shared lots of advice for writing vows, but our last huge roundup of vow examples was a long time ago... so we worked with readers to gather our favorite… Read More Go check out the rest of this sweet-as-hell wedding. Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Catherine Clark Catherine Clark is Offbeat Bride's Senior Editor. In her spare time she loiters at her local library, makes art, watches movies en masse, plays video and tabletop games, poorly cooks healthy things, cuddles with her feline fur baby, and blogs at BijouxandBits.com. @enidjcoleslaw @bijouxandbits @bijouxandbits PREVIOUS J. Von Stratton wedding dresses, inspired by glamorous drag queens and burlesque performers NEXT This ultra chic wedding is an homage to color, sweet details, and a naked cake Show/Hide comments [ 0 ] Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.