What can I wear instead of a wedding dress? Non-dress wedding outfits #Fashion Advice#affiliate#bride in pants#nonbinary / genderqueer#suit Posted Feb 19 2021 Offbeat Editors This post features offbeat affiliates, meaning that if you buy something featured, you'll be financially supporting this site's mission of bringing awesomeness to readers everywhere. Photo by Charmed Life Photography from this wedding So you've gotten engaged. You're doing it! You're getting married… but wtf are you going to wear? Some of us have dreamed of our evil fairy princess wedding dress for decades, or know exactly which fringed boho mermaid gown would be perfect. But others of us? Maybe we don't want to wear a wedding dress. If you try googling what can I wear instead of a wedding dress, you find a lot about alternative wedding dresses (and we have a TON of posts about alternative wedding dresses! We love alt wedding dresses!). But that's not what we're here to talk about. This is the post for someone who's not looking for alternative wedding dresses, but wedding dress ALTERNATIVES… as in you're thinking: "I don't want to wear a wedding dress." What are your wedding outfit options if you hate dresses? Now, maybe that's a fashion choice, maybe it's a function choice, or maybe it's a gender identity thing. Doesn't matter — if you're wondering what can I wear instead of a wedding dress? WE HAVE ANSWERS. We're breaking our answers into a few different buckets, depending on WHY you don't want to wear a wedding dress. Kick up some fun in a bridal jumpsuit If you're ok with having a one-piece, but don't want to be in a dress, a jumpsuit can be a fun option. Going to the bathroom can be tough, but that's just any jumpsuit. This style is a bit more of a boho wedding jumpsuit from Desiree Marie Designs THAT TRAIN THO! How much are you freaking over the ombre coloring on this silk jumpsuit from Wai Ching? Go short with a romper Again, this is a one-piece option, but with more kick! A bridal romper is great for a beach wedding, summer city wedding, or if you just want to show off those legs, honey! This is a bridal ROMPER! And it's got a removable overskirt Lace wedding romper from Tonena Go for bridal separates: wear a skirt with a top Ok, so maybe your problem with wedding dresses isn't the flowy part — it's the restrictive one-piece aspect. Two-piece wedding outfits are a great solution! You can go for bridal separates with a gorgeous flowy skirt paired with a top. linen bridal skirt from Wardrobe by Dulcinea This bodysuit from SweetCarolineStyles is made from soft cotton lace with a geometric pattern in a natural ivory tone. More inspiration for this look: Related Post Awesome two piece wedding dresses that you'll never not re-wear I'm highly attracted to the idea of wearing a two piece wedding dress. I love the fact that it means I could easily re-wear both pieces again and again. So… Read More Wear a wedding suit So if you want separates, AND you don't want to be in a flowy bottom, the suit is your perfect solution. Maybe in the past, bridal suits were associated with lesbian brides and more androgynous folks, but that is no longer the case. If you want a butch suit for your queer wedding, of course that's freaking awesome… and if you want an extremely feminine wedding suit for your totally straight wedding? That's hot AF, too! This suit is from David's Bridal of all places! Loving this custom tuxedo look! You can get it here. A classy white wedding suit… More inspiration for this look: Related Post Masculine suits for women, trans men, and other handsome AF folks Hey dapper brides, trans men, and anyone else who wants to look their stylish best in a suit on their wedding day: have you found your look yet? If not,… Read More Wear a corset and slacks This is an amazing look that we've only seen one bride rock, but we think has SO MUCH POTENTIAL. Pair an incredible custom corset from a place like Dark Garden with pair of slacks and you have the ultimate non-wedding-dress look. Kimberly & David's Bookish gender-avoiding party. Photo by Russ Mathews This is just one of literally DOZENS of looks for brides in pants. Be sure to check our full archive! Related Post 6 brides, 6 styles: there's no one way to be a bride Y'all know we've never taken the stance that there's one kind of bride or one way to be a bride. There's enough pressure to fit into a mold (emotionally AND… Read More Related Post A train ride ceremony and stunning kilts and bridal suits at this Railroad Museum of New England wedding At their Railroad Museum of New England wedding, Thiemba and Nate rocked historical looks with a custom made edible floral bouquet, a custom made bridal suit with french love letter… Read More PREVIOUS Wedding invitation wording during covid-19: Maybe, possibly, depending of the state of the plague NEXT 16 unique recessional songs for your offbeat wedding Show/Hide comments [ 1 ] love it!!!!! I'm loving the creativity and the ways people can express themselves!!! I recently did a wedding shoot that mixed a white jacket & pants but a crazy ridiculous train…and a derby hat. IT was fabulous. Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. 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