Liza & Matthew's joyful polka dot tattooed wedding #Real Weddings: Western US#DIY#diy wedding#economical wedding#outdoor#plus size#polka-dot#rockabilly#self-catered#tattooed bride#tattooed groom#washington Updated Oct 12 2015 (Posted Apr 13 2012) Offbeat Editors This bride's spirit kicked-ass in a recent Monday Montage. Here she is with her groom in all their polka-dotted glory. Photos by Megan Nefediew The offbeat bride: Liza, Visual Merchandising Manager Her offbeat partner: Matthew, Crane operator Date and location of wedding: Matthew's parents' house on Whidbey Island, WA — July 30, 2011 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We had a small budget, so we really spent a lot of time and energy doing things ourselves. We made all of the decorations ourselves, from the tissue pom-poms, bunting, and "YAY" flags, to the penguin cake toppers and table runners. We had our hands in everything. We both agree that if we had just hired someone to do the decor for us it wouldn't have had the same feeling at all. We also chose to keep the wedding small-ish and only invited roughly 100 people. We had one of our friends marry us, and family friends took charge of the food and making sure things went smoothly. Tell us about the ceremony: We wrote our own vows and tried to keep it really personal. I had been married before and am a very strong-willed person. So in our ceremony, we wrote parts such as "I promise to respect you as an individual and know that your thoughts and ideas, while they may be different than my own, are no less valid." We also did a hand ceremony which spoke about holding each others' hands and reflecting on what we will do for the other person and to honor them. We also added a "parents' pledge" that we didn't tell our parents about beforehand. They each were asked to stand up and pledge that they would accept the bride/groom into their family as one of their own and support the relationship. I loved that part. Our biggest challenge: Our biggest challenge was our budget. My parents had already spent a good amount of money on my first wedding, and I didn't feel comfortable asking them to do it again. Luckily, they did offer us some money and we worked hard to make it work. We did all the catering ourselves, purchased all the liquor, beer, champagne, made the cupcakes and candy bar, and I made all the jewelry, bouquets, and boutonnieres. My favorite moment: The most meaningful moment for me was walking down the aisle. Matthew is a really tough guy and in the three years we had been together, I think I'd seen him cry maybe once. We joked about him standing at the altar sobbing like a baby, but I didn't think it would really happen. I was so overcome that it literally took my breath away and I had to stop walking for a second. It was like someone had punched me in the stomach… in a good way. My funniest moment: About a year before our wedding, Matthew and I were in a Yankee Candle store. I was annoying him by making him smell every candle in the shop. I (wanting to push his buttons) said "Sometimes I want to chuck a Yankee Candle at your head," to which he responded with, "Well, sometimes I want to light you on fire — but I don't, because I love you." Obviously we weren't being serious, and this really represented our sarcastic way of communicating. Our officiant remembered this, and had me say, "I promise to never chuck a Yankee Candle at your head" and Matthew said, "I will never light you on fire, even though sometimes I really want to." Have you been married before and if so, what did you do differently? My first wedding was at one of those venues that takes care of almost everything for you. It was a beautiful wedding, but looking back, it wasn't me and I was just doing what I thought people expected us to do. I really wanted this wedding to be a celebration of how lucky we were to have found each other and to show everyone how happy we are. Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Photography: Megan Fediew Photography Videographer: Casey Sjogren Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! PREVIOUS 10 bad-ass bespectacled brides (and some grooms in glasses!) NEXT Purple wedding shoes are purple Show/Hide comments [ 25 ] Such a gorgeous couple! Love everything about this wedding Reply I love love love the red and turquoise together! I can't decide on a backdrop for my ceremony….but every time I see one of these ribbon backdrops it makes me so happy! Reply Oh those colors make my eyes happy! I love her hair too! Everything about this wedding so fantastic and they did such an amazing job 🙂 Reply This looked like such a fun wedding to be at. It looks causal, yet still weddingy, if that makes any sense. I love every aspect that you persented here, especially your cake. However my favourite part is what huge smiles on both of your faces, showing how happy you were at your wedding and how much you enjoyed each other's company. Love the candle part, oh how we torture our husbands during the planning stage. Have a wonderful married life. Sid Reply Stunning. So personal and romantic. The video brought tears to my eyes. Congratulations! Reply This is the first featured wedding that's made me cry, it's so beautiful! Your wedding video is amazing, all the DIY looks beautiful, and recognizing that the bride isn't always a demure, subservient lady and can be headstrong is awesome. Seriously, what an amazing wedding! Reply I'm glad I'm not the only one who cried! Lol it's gorgeous and I love the video! Reply SOOO FABULOUS! Reply LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE everything about this. Beautiful. Reply Me + your amazing hair = true love forever. Reply Ive known this couple since they met, though I did not attend, based on the photos it's totally 100% them, they wouldn't have had it any other way than perfect! This wedding is every girls dream of happily ever after and for certain was the perfect begining for Matty and Liza's fairy tale! Reply I love this. I would love a wedding like this. So much fun! Love the penguin cake toppers! 🙂 Reply ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh HAPPY DOTS! Reply BEST wedding video I've ever seen!!! Reply Where did you get the plates? They are awesome! Reply We got the plates from party city. It was actually the very first thing we purchased after we set a date! Reply On it! Your wedding is inspiring and adorable. I loved the video. Reply OMG. I got teary during the video – what an awesome wedding! <3 Reply Thanks everyone for all the wonderful comments!!! It's nice to hear that other people loved our wedding!!! It was a ton of hard work but it paid off!!! Reply Thanks everyone for all the wonderful comments!!! It's nice to hear that other people loved our wedding!!! It was a ton of hard work but it paid off!! Reply I love your poof balls! How did you get the red ones so vibrant? Reply Not sure really, its just regular red tissue paper. Magic i guess! 🙂 Reply I LOVE love love the video! It was personal, artistic and interesting. Great job! Reply THIS IS MY DREAM WEDDING! You guys had a beautiful wedding and set up. Thanks for the ideas! Many blessings and best wishes. Reply Thanks Hollie! It was my dream wedding too :). Can't beleive we are almost hitting our one year anniversary! Let me know if you need any help or hints on the DIY stuff. Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! 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