17 gender-neutral wedding party gifts they’ll actually want to use

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gender neutral wedding party rainbow pillow alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
PRIDE crochet rainbow pillows by ColorfulCushies

Are you having a mixed-gender wedding party, a gender-inclusive wedding party, or gendered gifts just aren't your bag? You know the ones; silk robes embroidered with “Bridesmaid” and leather bottle openers emblazoned with “Groomsmen.” Behold, our favorite gender-neutral wedding party gifts that everyone can enjoy regardless of gender identity. And the best part? They're wedding party gifts your squad will actually want to use!

1. If your gender-neutral wedding party frequently gathers around the gaming table, they'll love this DND leather flask.

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DND Leather Flask by by Hearth and Helm

2. Your gender-neutral wedding party can cuddle up with these cute crochet Pride pillows. You can even get one for every LGBTQ+ flag!

gender neutral rainbow alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
PRIDE crochet rainbow pillow by ColorfulCushies

3. Show every member of your gender-neutral wedding party extra gratitude by filling out these sweet journals for each of them!

4. Treat your gender-neutral wedding party to tea time.

gender neutral tea alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Gemstone Tea Ball Infuser by ShopMulberryCreek

5. Or if your “I Do Crew” is more coffee-leaning, keep them caffeinated with a portable espresso maker.

6. Ok, I know we emphasized USEFUL wedding gifts, but don't you get a kick out of everyone in your gender-neutral wedding party donning these burger socks?

7. For your classy gender-neutral wedding party, you can't go wrong with a craft cocktail kit.

8. Help your social media savvy gender-neutral wedding party keep a charge all wedding weekend long with a wireless phone charger.

9. Customize these stickers with every member of your gender-neutral wedding party's faces. They'll either love it or be totally weirded out (both reactions = money well spent).

10. This bluetooth key finder will have everyone in your gender-neutral wedding party saying “I didn't know I needed this, but I'm glad I have it!”

11. If your gender-neutral wedding party is filled with nerdy foodies, this Death Star is the chopping board you're looking for.

12. Treat your gender-neutral wedding party to cozy comfort with weighted blankets for all!

13. Whether they use it for Zoom calls, Facetime, or filming a TikTok, this mini ring light is an instant hit for everyone in your gender-neutral wedding party.

14. Personalize a flask to make your gender-neutral wedding party feel extra fancy!

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Personalized Engraved Flask by theEngraver

15. Give your gender-neutral wedding party the gift of organization.

16. Your gender-neutral wedding party can reflect on your wedding weekend in this celestial journal.

gender neutral wedding party manifestation journal alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Celestial Hardcover Manifestation Journal by SnappySistersShoppe

17. Picture your entire wedding party wearing matching personalized wooden sunglasses!

personalized wooden sunglasses wedding party gift alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
How cute it would it be to have pics of all your wedding attendants in their matching personalized wooden sunglasses?

What gender-neutral wedding party gifts are you getting your bridesmates and groomsfolk?

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