How to make handfasting cords

There is no right or wrong way to make handfasting cords, and they can be as elaborate or simple as you want them to be. It really comes down to what you want to represent yourselves, or what is easiest for you.


Skip the drama when addressing wedding invitations

I can't handle addressing these wedding invitations.

Everyone says I should address it to "Mr. & Mrs. Man's-First-Name Man's-Last-Name" but it pisses me off — addresses like this completely blow past the female component of a relationship.

Any ideas for how to be true-to-self without trying to make an in-your-face statement?