Stress rehearsal: Why I'm saying goodbye to the wedding photo checklist

I have a problem putting too much emphasis on details, and I have a tendency to be too detail-oriented. Through all this, my fiancé is like, "Why are you making simple things so complicated?" He also said at one point, "Why are you trying to cram in so many things into our wedding pictures, when you can just let things happen naturally?" Then I remembered a previous co-worker's wedding advice: "The wedding day goes by so fast. Enjoy each moment." So, remembering that, I said to my photographer, "no more photo must-haves."