We won a radio contest: Juli & John's White Castle wedding #Real Weddings: Midwest US#birdcage veil#compromising#diy wedding#economical wedding#family#family drama#gamers#geeky#military#missouri#mixed-gender wedding party#short engagement#short hair#small wedding#st. louis#tattooed bride#winter April 25 2011 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride The offbeat bride: Juli, Photographer and Legal Assistant Her offbeat partner: John, Airman and Security Guard Location & date of wedding: White Castle, St. Louis, Missouri — February 26, 2011 What made our wedding offbeat: I had been with my (now) husband for a little over two years and we were talking about getting married, but we knew the funds would be the biggest issue. I had been married before (big mistake!) and my parents weren't about to pay for another wedding. My husband is in the Air Force as well, and so five months of our two years and two months-long relationship have been spent apart due to his military training. We found out about a radio contest where couples could register to win a wedding inside a White Castle where food, flowers, a minister, and cake would be provided. We both thought it sounded completely insane, but also fun, so we signed up. We didn't think we would win. Well, we did! We had one week to get everything together after we found out we won. I got a dress, we invited thirty people and got rings. I made my birdcage veil with the help of a friend. Everyone we knew was surprisingly excited and thought it would be fun, laid back, and memorable. Apparently White Castle has been doing weddings for a few years now, as a play on their Valentine's Day tradition of taking reservations and laying out table linens and decorations for couples on V-Day. Not many people get to say they got married in a Castle! Tell us about the ceremony: I found a secular vow set online and modified it slightly. We are not religious really, and it was important for me to make the vows meaningful without being spiritual. I also wanted there to be a line about accepting love and friendship in all of its many forms, because I support gay rights, and gay marriage, and my Man of Honor is gay. I didn't want a traditional, "man and wife" vow set. Their officiant was a radio DJ! Our biggest challenge: We had a lot more people coming than we were originally allotted food and space for, but the White Castle corporate representative and the radio station representatives both totally accomodating. They fed almost twice as many guests as we were originally allowed! My favorite moment: Mostly, I just loved how supportive and completely on-board our friends and family were. My funniest moment: I kissed my husband at the end of the ceremony and he had my red lipstick all over his face! Was there anything you were sure was going to be a total disaster that unexpectedly turned out great? We didn't really have a photographer due to funds or time, but the groom's step-dad came forward and took some really great photos with his new Canon that he carries around all the time! My advice for offbeat brides: I planned my first wedding in eight months, and it was a complete rollercoaster of stress. John and I still had some stressful situations to work through this time around, but overall, only having one week to get it all together was a blessing. I didn't have time to become resentful of anyone in one week! Have you been married before and if so, what did you do differently? My first wedding was a big, white, traditional affair. The only alternative aspect was that my ex and I rode off in a white hearse that said "till death do us part." This time, it was all about fun, spontaneity, and our friends and family. I wouldn't change a thing. We are going to have a big reception later in the year or early next year to include anyone that couldn't attend our White Castle ceremony. What was the most important lesson you learned from your wedding? It's not about fancy venues, fancy food, or fancy anything. It's about companionship, love, support, and having a great time celebrating life with your loved ones. Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Antique Hat with Russian Veiling (which I re-purposed into my veil): Warson Woods Antique Gallery, Manchester, MO Dress: Deb Shoes: Steve Madden Kitten Heels Bouquet and Groom's Boutonniere: Walter Knoll Florist Cupcakes: Jilly's Cupcake Bar and Cafe Ceremony hosts: 105.7 The Point Radio Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Liz & Steven's road trip, biking, and hiking honeymoon with the dogs NEXT Camels and puppies and Muppets, OH MY! Show/Hide comments [ 17 ] FUN!! My friend got married at "Whataburger" here in Tallahassee. Unforgettable. Many blessings to you both. Reply I never would have guessed those aren't professional photos! Reply Adorable! I especially like the go-for-it-and-have-fun attitude. Congratulations! Reply Dude, I want to win my wedding, lol! This looks like a fun wedding, and the couple is very cute. Reply I think the bride looked gorgeous and the whole thing sounded like fun. Also, props for being the first wedding I ever heard of being planned in a week! Reply Supes cutes! All the fun with friends and none (less?) of the stress. Reply This is awesome! I have never heard of doing a wedding at White Castle, but it's so original! I bet all of the guests won't forget this wedding in a while! Beautiful veil – everything looked like so much fun! Reply Awesome. My fiance was so jealous to read this. My only question is was there porn posted at the end, because all I see is a black box? Reply All I see is a black box too. And it eats my cursor… Reply You guys are adorable! I love the birdcage veil you made, it's incredible 🙂 Reply I just had to google 'White Castle', I was really expecting a white castle… d'oh Reply Thanks for all the sweet comments 🙂 We had the best day, and everyone that hears the story and sees the pictures thinks it was a very "Juli and John" thing to do. Reply Yet another reason why I love 105.7 Reply I love your look! The dress, the veil, the ring, EVERYTHING! Reply Can I just say that this makes me want a White Castle in Denver EVEN MORE! SO AWESOME!! Reply Good grief, woman. You are BEAUTIFUL, and from the looks of it, your wedding was a blast! Reply Ehehe, this looks awesome! And Juli, you are totally drop-dead gorgeous. 😀 Curvy brides represent!!! <3 Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. 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