Fantasy fandom mash-up: a Harry Potter meets Lord of the Rings wedding #Real Weddings: Western US#fantasy wedding#geeky weddings#harry potter#lord of the rings#texas Updated Mar 15 2021 (Posted Apr 5 2016) Offbeat Editors Photos by: Fireheart Photography Photos by Fireheart Photography The Offbeat Bride: Shanon, Small Business Owner Her offbeat partner: Brandon, Senior Account Manager Date and location of wedding: Agave Road in Katy, Texas — October 11, 2015 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: While Brandon and I met at college in Kansas, I was born and raised in Texas. We decided to have a long two-year engagement because half of our guests would be traveling down for the wedding in Texas, and I knew I wanted to DIY pretty much everything for our Harry Potter meets Lord of the Rings wedding. Ever since I can remember, I've been obsessed with Lord of the Rings, and Brandon and I both grew up reading and watching Harry Potter. Both of these play a huge part in our lives and we knew we had to incorporate them into our wedding. I used coffee filters and poster board to make the flowers for all seven of the bouquets. I then used sword hilts as the base of the flowers. My own wedding bouquet sword was a weird-but-pretty imitation of Narsil from Lord of the Rings. I tried to add in other geeky touches such as changing the titles of the food we served to Elvish names, and I made a wedding cloak rather than get a veil. The seating chart was split in half between Hogwarts and Middle-Earth locations, and our ring bearer was a Hobbit who carried a pillow book version of Lord of the Rings. I also made little Evenstar necklaces for my bridemaids, and our guest book was made up of five different wooden keys the guests signed, each representing our favorite fandoms and hobbies. Tell us about the ceremony: Since I made almost everything for the wedding (centerpieces, programs, menus, seating chart, boutonnieres, etc.) and Brandon had been there every step of the way during this DIY madness, I asked that he help me set up the morning of the wedding because he knew what needed to go where. This meant that he saw me before the ceremony, in all my pre-wedding glory, running around like a mad woman screaming for tape or something with curlers falling out. However, after the first 30 minutes of sprinting around the venue to set up, things got really chill. Like, surprisingly chill. We could arrive five hours prior to the ceremony to set up and get ready and everyone on Earth told me that this would not be enough time for everything I said I needed to do (set up centerpieces, set up the s'mores bar, get hair and make up for nine people, decorate, do a first-look, etc) but, thanks to the help of our wedding party, family, and my amazing coordinator, we did it! At the start of the ceremony, my bridesmaids walked down the aisle to "Concerning Hobbits" from The Fellowship of the Ring, followed by our little Hobbit ring bearer nephew, and finally, as "The Kiss" from Last of the Mohicans faded in, my dad and I started down. I made a ribbon that said "Always" that our pastor draped around our hands in a mini handfasting ceremony. Tell us about your reception: Since many of our wedding party had spouses and children, I didn't want to separate them or have a head table. We opted to have a little sweetheart table instead, and we loved it! For our cake cutting, we pre-hid an axe under the cake table to bring out as a surprise and used it to cut the cake. One of Brandon's cousins hand-knitted us Hogwarts house scarves and gave them to us at the reception. Brandon was so excited that he wore it the entire night. I didn't shed a tear until my maid of honor gave her toast, and then I lost it. I forgot to get/make one a tossing bouquet, so I used the bow bouquet my maid of honor had made from my wedding shower presents and that worked out great. For the garter toss, Brandon put the garter around a football with $10 tucked in it, and the guys really fought for it. What was your most important lesson learned? One of the most important lessons I learned is that if it's important to you, you should do it. Right before the wedding, my business I had just started got a lot of publicity and my sales spiked. I was trying to juggle my business and the wedding. Brandon sat me down and said "which of these wedding projects in most important? Which NEEDS to get done?" and honestly, all of them mattered to me. Thankfully, Brandon helped me through everything, from cutting out 150 round menu cards to tying little jute bows around the s'mores favors we gave out. Even after two years of working on it, I still had to have a few emergency craft nights with my maid of honor and future in-laws, and I couldn't have done it without them. Vendors Photographer: Francie Baltazar Stonestreet, Fireheart Photography Venue: Agave Road Catering: Frana Old World Catering Hair and Makeup: Secrets Salon Groomsman knives: Lazer Designs Bridesmaids wooden gift boxes: Greek Art Bridesmaid dresses: Azazie PREVIOUS Gen X vs Millennials: How Offbeat Brides of different ages are super different NEXT Don't have a vintage suitcase? Use a guitar case card box Show/Hide comments [ 17 ] SLYTHERPUFFS FOR THE WIN! What a beautiful wedding. 🙂 Reply This is gorgeously genius!!! I completely adore your wedding! Reply Your wedding was INSANELY gorgeous! Where did you get the LOTR ring bearer pillow? I would LOVE this for my wedding! I'm a huge fan of LOTR too, my hubby, not so much, so I would love little tribute like this…. Reply Thank you so much! I made the pillow, it's what I do, I make pillow books! I custom make them all, and for our ring bearer pillow I put in our names, the wedding date, etc. I don't know what most people do with them who buy them, they're meant as throw pillows for decoration really, but I thought we might as well use one as a pillow in the wedding! https://www.etsy.com/shop/BrassingtonHollow Reply Everything about this wedding is AMAZING! You win. 😉 Reply So awesome! I remember seeing pre-photos of some of your projects on the tribe and it is so cool to see how everything came together and turned out. Well done! Reply I LOVE this wedding!!! Holy crap, this may be one of my favorites on OBB. Nice work on all these DIY touches! The bouquets are magic! And I've never seen a lacy wedding veil/cloak before…..magnificent! Reply This wedding was absolutely fantastic! The details, the photography… the little ring bearer with the pillow book! You are extremely talented! May your lives be blessed for eternity! Reply Did you buy a sword and cut off the hilt or were you able to find just the hilt? I'm wanting to do something very similar but can't find what I want ? Reply I just have to say, your wedding is EXACTLY what we want for ours. It gave me some great ideas (wooden keys!) and reaffirmed that you can have a Harry Potter/LotR wedding without requiring your guests to dress up and it will work just fine. It's also reminding me that there IS a venue out there. I just have to keep at it. Because yours is clearly gorgeous and perfect with the themes. So…thanks, for the inspiration and for rocking it. Also, for the pillows (I love your Etsy shop and have pimped it to all my friends for a year because BOOK FRAKKIN PILLOWS). 😀 Reply Where did you get sword hilts from? Amazing wedding!!! Reply I NEED to know where they got the sword hilts from. It would be the best for my LoTr wedding. Reply I really need to know too! Reply Where in the world did you get those programs? They are fantastic! Reply WHERE DID YOU FIND YOUR BOUQUET SWORD BASE?! I CAN'T FIND ONE ANYWHERE ? Reply I love your wedding!! My fiance and I are also huge LotR and Harry Potter fans!! You looked gorgeous by the way. How did you make your inventation? I love the picture at the bottem of the two parties coming together in fandom style. Reply OMG You have no idea how happy this makes me!! I love absolutely everything about this! Your cape/veil is AMAZING. So much talent. I want to be best friends with both the bride and groom pretty much. Adorable! Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. 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