Danae & Dougie's 50's-style, Lego & candy wedding #Real Weddings: Global#1950s#candy#LEGO#outdoor#pink dress#scotland#uk December 29 2009 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride The offbeat bride: Danae, lingerie expert Her offbeat partner: Dougie, Business Analyst Location & date of wedding: Edinburgh, Scotland — 1st August 2009 What made our wedding offbeat: We had an outdoor wedding in Scotland, complete with Lego, a hot pink wedding dress, 50's style dresses and an explosion of colour. To put it briefly, we really didn't want a "classy" wedding, we wanted a fun wedding. I'm not a classy woman, so why try to turn myself into one for just one day? Both of us are well-known for being big kids, so we went with that and set out to have a fun, happy wedding that incorporated the things we love. Dougie loves Lego, so we used it for everything from the buttonholes to the guest book to the cufflinks. He's also got a big sweet tooth, so we bought lots of cheap vintage dishes at a furniture salvage yard and filled them with retro candies for each table. We also had about eight different kinds of cake, all homemade by our guests and friends. My mother-in-law made our beautiful wedding cake and added our Lego bride and groom. I love the 50's, so I hired a dressmaker to make me the ultimate 50's party dress. We knew white wasn't going to work for this kind of wedding, and picked out crazier and crazier colours until we decided on hot pink. My bridesmaids wore white instead, and I carried an incredible bouquet from my florist friend that had every flower that we both loved in it — why limit yourself to just a few? Our biggest challenge: Our biggest challenge was pulling off the kind of wedding we wanted for the amount of money we wanted to spend. https://www.flickr.com/photos/danaeshell/3930242912/in/set-72157622285690153 We wanted to just have a big garden party, at a house that we got free run of for the weekend, without any caterers, organizers or anything else that we were required to hire. Finding that in a country as popular as Scotland for wedding destinations was no mean feat. We finally stumbled upon Carriden House outside of Edinburgh, and they were amazing — once I convinced the owner that I really did know what I was doing, they just let us take care of everything. Of course, that is a challenge all by itself. We quickly realised that we needed some help on the day to make sure food was set out and things were cleared away, so we hired a few teenagers we knew to serve as our helpers for the day. They did everything from making our photo guestbook to cueing the music to washing the dishes, and were an amazing help. It was a huge challenge to organise everything beforehand, however — I wrote pages of timelines and instructions to leave with the helpers, as I wouldn't be able to organise things on the day. I ended up briefing our Best Men and Bridesmaids to serve as the organisers on the day, and they handled any questions the helpers had. It all ran smoothly on the day! My favorite moment: It's really difficult to choose a favourite moment, because the whole day just merged into one wonderful gasp of happiness! I think my favourite moment was directly after the ceremony, when all of our friends and family rushed around us in this wonderful outpouring of happiness. I was already so giddy that Dougie nicknamed me "The Exploding Bride," and to have everyone I loved there around us and so happy for us was really just too wonderful for words. I also loved the music at our wedding, as it created such a happy, relaxed atmosphere. I walked down the aisle to "Be My Baby," and after the ceremony, i'd picked out tons of retro tunes like "Under the Boardwalk" to play while guests were mingling. During dinner we moved to classic piano tunes like "As Times go By" and Nat King Cole, and our first dance was to "A Bicycle Built for Two." In the evening, our friends took over DJ'ing and we danced into the wee hours to everything from 80's cheese to Sweet Home Alabama! My offbeat advice: Only spend money on the things you care about, and just disregard the rest, no matter how "important" it seems. We did online invitations, because we really just didn't see the need for paper ones. On the other hand, we spent a great deal of money on accommodating our wedding party and parents at the venue, because it was important to us that they all spent some time getting to know each other. If you love photos, hire a photographer — they don't have to cost the earth or be super-famous and could even just be a friend, but make sure you line someone up that you're confident about. If it is a friend, insist on paying them, so you feel comfortable bossing them around. Our decision to hire a photographer was last-minute and financially scary, but it the best decision we made — we will treasure Lillian & Leonard's photos for the rest of our lives. My biggest piece of advice is: pay for the wedding yourself. Whether it means your wedding budget will be $100 or $10,000, you will be *so* much happier if you keep control the finances, and thus, the decisions. We did this, and it was a big relief when family members disagreed about something to be able to confidently say, "don't worry, you'll love it," and close the discussion. And guess what? They totally did love it! Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Our venue: Carriden House Florist: Flowerevolution My dressmaker (dress and veil): Lynne Edward Caterer: Hyndberry (the food was organic, locally sourced and amazing!) Photography: Lillian & Leonard Dougie's suit and best men suits: TM Lewin Bridesmaid Dresses: Unique Vintage Earrings: vintage, from Etsy seller Hat: vintage from Etsy seller Pearl bracelet from Etsy seller Lego cufflinks from Etsy seller Lego guestbook from Etsy seller My lingerie (I have to mention that!): Rigby & Peller Enough talk — show me the wedding porn: Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Seamstress secrets: wedding dress alteration & bridal fitting advice NEXT Drool-alicious Texas wedding porn from Whitney Lee Photography Show/Hide comments [ 20 ] How beautiful. You all look so happy, especially the bride. Congrats on a wonderful day! Reply Love that dress! OMG, the colors. It just makes me want to dance. Reply loved everything Reply Aww, that is the sweetest wedding! Congrats to the couple they looked so happy and the wedding looked so FUN! Reply The advice to pay for the wedding yourself is excellent. Wish I had done it! Reply What a beautiful day! I especially love your bouquet with every flower you liked! It is wonderful. Many blessings! Reply I'm so glad you featured this wedding, yay Danae! Reply This just looks like so much FUN! And you look gorgeous. Congratulations. Reply This is so exciting, we are looking at Carriden House for our wedding too and I wanted pretty much what you had! 1950's style… a girl after my own heart! Have been on to Mrs Balckbourn and she is just lovely, will so be using you as the example to convince her of our plans!! Thank you so much for posting this, its great to see an AWESOME wedding where we'd like to have our one… this has made my day xD oh and congratulations!! Reply This is so exciting, we are looking at Carriden House for our wedding too and I wanted pretty much what you had! 1950's style… a girl after my own heart! Have been on to Mrs Balckbourn and she is just lovely, will so be using you as the example to convince her of our plans!! Thank you so much for posting this, its great to see an AWESOME wedding where we'd like to have our one… this has made my day xD oh and congratulations!! Reply This has completly made my day. My partner loves lego, and we really want to incorporate it in the wedding. Glad we're not the only ones! Reply Hi Hazeler, Barbara is very lovely indeed! If you go for Carriden House, feel free to e-mail me and i can give you any help you need – our suppliers, how we organised things, etc. I'd be happy to help! Sarah, i'm glad you loved the Lego – it was so much fun to put it on the tables especially, as it gave our guests something fun to play with. The Lego photo on this post was built by our guests as a wee wedding pressie! Reply LOVE that dress — what a great color! And you do look classy, whether you tried or not. 😉 Reply My fh…Is a huge lego fan!!! we went to the lego store during our family vacation and he was like a klid in a candy store… I was thinking about having his groomsmen cake as a big lego brick..lol Love your wedding pics BEAUTIFUL!!! Reply I'm a huge fan of LEGO, this really inspiring. Congratulations on your wedding. Reply First of all, I love, love, LOVE the wedding dress. Also the idea of the bridesmaids wearing the traditional white dresses. I have often said that I want to do that, But people think I am crazy. Glad to see someone else pull it off so well!! I also loved the lego joker worn on one of the groom's mens flowers. Hehe, too cute. The whole wedding was breath taking and looked like tons of fun!! I really enjoyed your adorable wedding pictures and wish you many years of happiness together! 🙂 Reply love it. I too am planning a 50's style wedding and i am not classy =0) loved that part of the story Reply I love this. We're having mini lego sets as favours and giant games. Having seen how much fun yours looks I can only hope we get the same fun out of it. Reply I'm a huge fan of wedding fashion and love the dresses in the pictures. The whole wedding looked really classy and fun!! Wishing the happy couple many years of happiness together! Reply I am loving the Lego! Ye looked like ye had a ball, congratulations! Reply Leave a Reply to weddings Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! 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