Brazilian, English, and Indian cultures blend at Tamar & Bruno's crafty multicultural wedding #Real Weddings: Western US#blue hair#christian#couples of color#handmade dress#multicultural#potluck wedding#short dress July 17 2015 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride Photos by: ixi photography Photos by ixi photography The Offbeat Bride: Tamar, 3D Designer Her offbeat partner: Bruno, Apple Support Date and location of wedding: House on the Hill, Austin Texas — July 22, 2014 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: Bruno and I met at college in Houston, TX. After graduation, I moved back to England, and we got engaged a year later. I wanted to move back to Texas and have the wedding there, but I had to do the planning from England. We have different ethnic backgrounds: he is Brazilian, and I am half English and half Indian. I wanted our wedding to reflect who we are as individuals and our families and cultures coming together. My family and friends are crafty, and we enjoyed making things for the wedding (for the most part!). The biggest project we took on was the dress. After looking for a dress for myself and my bridesmaids and being rather uninspired, my mother offered to make them. We spent the year leading up to my move working on my wedding dress. The end product was far more stunning than I had envisioned at the beginning of the project. The lace jacket is made from a sari as a nod to my Indian heritage. After she was done with my dress, she made the bridesmaids' dresses and even found time to make a waistcoat for Bruno that matched my dress. My other big project was making the fabric flowers for the bouquets — we made hundreds! The bridesmaids' jewelry was made by Sophia, one of my maids of honor. I'm lucky to have so many creative and talented people in my life. Tell us about the ceremony: I wanted to keep some of the traditional elements in for the family, so I used the vows from the Church of England's wedding service. Other than that, we didn't have any specific religious elements. I was sure to mention how pleased we were to have Bruno's grandparents with us from Brazil, which Bruno later told me was really special to him and them. Instead of a unity candle, we chose to have our family and the wedding party place some of the homemade flowers around our feet in an infinity symbol. They all worked very hard helping us with the wedding and the planning, so I wanted to have them involved in the ceremony. The symbol represented the two of us joining but also our families and friends becoming closer through our union. We stood in the symbol for the rest of the ceremony. I had some fun with the music. I walked down the aisle to an early instrumental version of a Skrillex song. It was just guitars, but I liked putting a nod to Bruno's love of dubstep into the wedding. After the ceremony, we walked back up the aisle to my favorite band, The Beatles. I also loved seeing my parents in traditional Indian clothing. Many people didn't realize that was part of my heritage, and they looked fabulous. Tell us about your reception: The venue we chose was in the beautiful hill country of Austin, Texas. We had the ceremony outside and the reception inside. In keeping with our low budget theme, we asked guests to bring a dish to share for the reception instead of bringing a gift. I asked family and friends to bring their favourite dish or a dish that was part of their culture. My father made an Indian dish and one of my maids of honor made a Greek dish. We provided a build-your-own-burger bar, and I coordinated with the wedding party to ensure we had a decent amount of food. Guests brought far more food than I anticipated. Another reason we chose to do our own food was to cater to dietary needs. We had several vegetarian guests, and I'm gluten- and dairy-free. I knew coordinating with a caterer would be a challenge. My bridesmaids helped me bake the wedding cupcakes. All were gluten- and dairy-free so everyone could enjoy them. I made cards so everyone could label the food they brought and draw attention to any ingredients that might be an issue for some. My favourite part of the reception was probably the first dance. Bruno decided he wanted to learn to salsa for our first dance. Neither of us had any dance experience, and I was happy not to dance at all. We took dance lessons the two months leading up to the wedding and learned a routine for our wedding. What was your most important lesson learned? Related Post 3 ways to chase down RSVPs from lazy guests I'm five weeks out from my wedding, and I'm still missing about 30% of my RSVPs. We won't get into why it's so hard for... Read more I learned that no matter how hard you try, people suck at RSVPs. I had everything online and easy to do and gave people plenty of notice, but I still had around 30 RSVPs on the day of the wedding, and I even had some people show up uninvited (others took it upon themselves to invite people). Luckily, we only planned on a small, casual wedding and didn't invite more people than the venue could handle, but fitting everyone around the tables at the reception was a bit of a squeeze. I would also like to mention our wonderful photographer Alexandra. She made everyone feel comfortable, and it really shows in the photos. I wanted the photos to look natural, like we would on any other day, just a bit dressed up. Vendors Photographer: ixi photography Venue: House On The Hill Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Trees and fishies: some of our favorite wedding memorials from offbeat weddings NEXT Pink wedding shoes for rosy memories Show/Hide comments [ 6 ] Bride looks like her dad! I like all the settle touches to each ethnic group. I love the father's outfit. I did not know they were fake flowers. They looked real to me. I wish you showed a photo of the Indian food. I love Indian food. Reply It's so nice to see that the potluck in lieu of gifts worked out- we're planning on trying the same thing. And the pre-made food cards to highlight ingredients is genius. That's going on my to-do list! Reply Omg, I love her hair! How do you do that? Reply I do my hair myself! I just put the dye in until I'm happy with it. For this look I seperated it into sections, the underneath and ends are purple and the top is blue. I painted the dye into each layer of hair and then allowed for some blending between the colors. I had 3 colors, the purple, a dark blue and a light turquoise blue. The rest of the variations come from blending the colors. Reply I love it so, so much! I have naturally curly hair, and figured the bleaching would kill the curls, and it'd turn into a hot mess. How do you manage the curls so it looks layered?? Can we get an Offbeat Home & Life tutorial from you on your hair dye process, items used, etc.? Reply What a stunning event! You're a beautiful couple and the party looks like so much fun! Reply Leave a Reply to Renee Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. 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