Fall hard for Amie & Kyle's lavender and bamboo local farm brunch wedding #Real Weddings: Northeast US#bearded groom#blue hair#boho weddings#brunch wedding#farm#flower crown#green hair#massachusetts#outdoor#rustic wedding#short dress Updated Oct 12 2015 (Posted Aug 11 2015) Offbeat Editors Photos by: Blink of a Nye Photos by Blink of a Nye The Offbeat Bride: Amie, Behavior Therapist Her offbeat partner: Kyle, Seafood Quality Control Inspector Date and location of wedding: Seven Arrows Farm, Attleboro, MA — June 27, 2015 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: It was very important to us that our wedding have an easy vibe — fun and comfortable for us and our guests — which is why we chose an outdoor brunch. We really wanted to support small, local businesses, so all of our vendors were people we know personally or small businesses we frequent. There wasn't necessarily a theme, but the entire wedding was done in purples and had lots of antlers and rustic touches in the decor, including a deer skull centerpiece and a wrought iron chandelier hanging in our tent. Tell us about the ceremony: Our yorkiepoo, Zuzu, carried our rings, escorted by my dad. I had her lavender dress with flouncy feather skirt custom made, and my florist provided a flower collar to match my crown. She looked beautiful! Our flower girls wore amazing purple faery dresses with giant tulle skirts and carried flower "wands" with ribbons trailing. We wanted to keep the actual ceremony short and light, so we chose our hilarious friend Chris, whom I've known for more than half my life, to officiate as a one-day solemnizer. The day before our wedding, the US Supreme Court announced their decision about marriage equality. My brother, our officiant, our roommate, and many of our guests are gay, so it meant everything to us that they were attending and participating in a country that acknowledges their equal right to choose marriage. Kyle and I went to college together for creative writing, so we wrote our own vows. At one point while he was speaking, he — a typically stoic and pragmatic guy — actually choked up a little. That moment continues to touch my heart. Tell us about your reception: Our tent was literally in a bamboo forest, which is that wall of green that can be seen in many of the photos. My brother devoted days of work to decorating the ceiling with ribbon in many shades of purple and hanging the chandelier and fairy lights. We served a brunch from one of our favorite restaurants in Providence, RI, where we live, complete with two live omelette stations for guests to build their own omelettes, scrambles, or tofu scrambles. The restaurant itself is farm-to-table, which means all the food, fruit, and juice was fresh and fantastic. A pastry chef friend of ours worked with us to create amazing lavender macarons, lemon macarons, and lavender cupcakes. Her boyfriend actually went out into the woods at his house and found the wood they used as our cake trays. Also, because there was composting available at the restaurant and right on the farm, all of the food waste from our wedding was composted. Our favors were sachets of fresh lavender tea, which was grown right on the farm. With all that lavender in the floral arrangements, desserts, and sachets, the scent carried through on even the lightest breeze. What was your most important lesson learned? Patience. I have never been good with exercising patience, and when I have a project I tend to steamroll through it until it's done. Weddings just don't work this way. Take your time and make decisions mindfully. And, most importantly for me, if you are nervous because your vendors aren't getting back to you quickly, relax and give them a chance. They care about you, and ultimately they care about their business enough to want you to be completely happy and satisfied. Breathe, let it come together, and enjoy. Vendors Venue: Seven Arrows Farm Caterer: Julian's Restaurant Florist: Studio 539 Flowers Photographer: Chelsea Nye, Blink of a Nye PREVIOUS Near or far? What to consider when choosing between a local or destination wedding NEXT Open thread: How do you have a no-kids wedding ceremony but kid-friendly reception? Show/Hide comments [ 13 ] Congratulations, really amazing couple…. Reply Love your hair! That's the same shade as mine so obviously, I'm bias. Loving the whole vintagey nature look. Just gorgeous! Reply Amie's SMILE… Just so much gloriousness Reply I am Amis aunt, and as a participant, I can say that this wedding was truly amazing and beautiful. This being my first "non-traditional wedding", and being middle aged +, I will admit I was a little skeptical. Boy. was I fooled. It was truly one of the best weddings I have ever attended. The ceremony- heart warming – the food – delicious – the venue – breathtaking – the reception – relaxing and comfortable. And lastly, the bride and groom -two amazing individuals who taught an old " traditional -minded person a lesson in life. Thank you Ami and Kyle. Reply Amie & Kyle's Smiles lit up the tent that day . This wedding was the most beautiful wedding I have ever attended in my entire life The local businesses they chose were amazing if you are planning a wedding check out the vendors they used … Amie was the most beautiful Bride I have ever seen ! Reply Congratulations! Your wedding looks very beautiful, fun and laid-back and I love the color of your hair. I don't usually comment on this site, but I always look at other wedding profiles and always see careers that are different from my own (not that there is anything wrong with that). But I clicked this link and saw that you're a behavior therapist as well and just had to say something!! Congrats again!! Reply Congrats, I adore this. I live in MA and have been searching for a very easy-going, natural and budget friendly place for our small ceremony and reception. Reading your story here made me go ahead and get in touch with Seven Arrows. I'm looking forward to learning more about their space! I'm really curious how much they charge. 🙂 Reply Congratulations !! Love the clothes, setup and wonderful pics. God bless Reply Congratulations Just so much gloriousness Reply This is so amazing. You look amazing together. God bless you! Reply Many Congratulations for both of you, thanks for sharing Nice Picture!! Reply Congratulations !! Reply Congratulations !! WOW! 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