Julia & Seb's international-flair Vegas wedding #Real Weddings: Western US#birdcage veil#converse#destination wedding#diy wedding#humanist#las vegas#nevada#small wedding#unity cocktail Updated Mar 15 2021 (Posted Jun 14 2011) Offbeat Editors We got a sneak preview of this wedding from CK at 39 East Vision Photography. Now you get to satisfy your appetite for this fantastic Vegas wedding! Photos by CK Hwang The offbeat bride: Julia, Kindergarten and yoga teacher Her offbeat partner: Seb, Finance-type person Date and location of wedding: Sam's Town and The Orleans Casinos in Las Vegas, NV — April 23, 2011 What made our wedding offbeat: Seb and I met over two years ago while backpacking around the world. He's from the UK and I'm from Portland, Oregon, so deciding on a wedding location was tricky. But after winning a quick arm wrestle, I managed to keep it on home turf and we settled on Vegas. 45 guests came from seven states and six countries. We wanted to make the entire wedding day as awesome and Vegas-tastic as possible. So we had a quirky ceremony, took everyone bowling before dinner, and had a somewhat unusual reception. It was held in a hotel suite with a view of the Strip. There was a buffet dinner, no seating arrangement, and no bridal table, for a relaxed atmosphere. We then treated everyone to a midnight tour of the Vegas Strip on an open-top double-decker bus –- with Elvis! It was also very much a DIY wedding. We handmade our invitations and programs, designed my dress, wrote our ceremony and vows, arranged fresh flowers, and made the playlists for the ceremony and reception. We also picked up the wedding favors while passing through Cambodia. Tell us about the ceremony: We chose to sign all the legal paperwork a few days beforehand so that a close friend could perform a humanist ceremony and we could do whatever we wanted. Music was important to us. My dad danced me down the aisle to "U Can't Touch This" by MC Hammer. Seb's dad played "Fly Me to the Moon" by Frank Sinatra on the sax and everyone sang "Stand By Me" by Ben E. King as a modern hymn. We exited to "I Feel Good" by James Brown. Our sisters read two poems: "The Promise" by Eileen Rafter and a slightly shortened version of "I Like You" by Sandol Stoddard Warburg. "I Like You" by Sandol Staddard Warburg (abridged) I like you and I know why I like you because You are a good person to like I like you because When I tell you something special You know it's special And you remember it a long, long time You say, "Remember when you told me something special?" And both of us remember When I think something is important you think it's important too We have good ideas When I say something funny You laugh I think I'm funny And you think I'm funny too You know who to be silly That's why I like you Boy, are you ever silly! I never met anybody sillier than me 'Til I met you I like you because you know when it's time to stop being silly too If you go away Then I go away too Or if I stay home you send me a postcard You don't just say, "Well, see you around some time. Bye!" I like you a lot because of that I like you because If I think I am going to throw up Then you are really sorry You don't just pretend you are busy Looking at the birdies and all that You say, "Maybe it was something you ate" You say, "Same thing happened to me one time" And the same thing did I like you because I don't know why but Everything that happens Is nicer with you I like you because… I forget why I like you But I do for so many reasons I guess I just like you Because I like you We also did a Unity Cocktail ceremony and ended with an Indonesian wedding tradition, since that is where we met and is also the birthplace of my father. We sat under an umbrella while our celebrant showered us in a mixture of goodness. This included turmeric rice, to symbolize prosperity and everlasting love; coins, to remind us to share our wealth with the less fortunate; and candy, to represent sweetness throughout our marriage. It ended up being a highlight of the ceremony and produced some awesome photos. (And the younger kids enjoyed picking up the sweets and coins off the floor!) Our biggest challenge: Vegas was the last stop of our two-year backpacking trip, so we had to plan the wedding without setting foot in Vegas until the week of the wedding. Plenty of people told us we were crazy. It was daunting at times, but with the wonder of the internet, we pulled it off. For months we lived and breathed online reviews, Skype, Facebook, and every other wedding resource out there (including Offbeat Bride). We ended up having to cross our fingers and hope that we made the right choices. My favorite moment: Everyone singing "Stand By Me" during the ceremony. I could feel the love in the air as everyone sang their hearts out. I love how the song not only applied to us as a couple, but also to our friends and family who came to show their love and support for our marriage. My 94-year-old grandmother helped to arrange the fresh daffodils. It was a simple gesture, but her involvement was so touching. She came all the way from Pennsylvania to arrange the flowers for the reception and tie a lovely bouquet for me to carry. She's an extraordinary woman. Dancing with my father was really special. We danced to his song choice of "Daddy's Hands" by Holly Dunn. When we danced, he told me how proud he was of me but to never forget that I will always be his little girl. I didn't even bother trying to hold back the tears. My funniest moment: Our ceremony was on the Observation Deck at Sam's Town Casino overlooking their "Mystic Falls" Park. It's covered by a giant glass roof. Mid-ceremony, an enormous mechanical bear emerged from an artificial cave and watched a short fountain show before he graciously retreated and allowed us to continue. It made for a cheese-tastic intermission. During the Unity Cocktail ceremony, Seb's answer to how the the cocktail tasted: "Hmm… tastes well-traveled and ready to settle down." Was there anything you were sure was going to be a total disaster that unexpectedly turned out great? Basically everything. Because we organized the event from so far away, there was a constant fear that the whole thing could end in disaster. A few of our close friends made a huge difference by stepping up and taking care of all the logistical details on the day. They took care of all the guest-herding, bag-carrying, and even a beer-run for the late-night Elvis bus. My advice for offbeat brides: Unplanned things will happen, but just remember that they will make good stories down the road. Whether your flowers aren't perfect or you get bed bug bites on your face in a Peruvian hostel just a few days before (yep, it happened), don't stress about things you can't control. What was the most important lesson you learned from your wedding? That it's possible! It blows my mind that we were able to plan this entire wedding from thousands of miles away. Just a few years ago there was no way we could have done it. Isn't the internet incredible? Given our situation, it would have been a lot easier and cheaper to get married on a tropical beach by ourselves somewhere in Southeast Asia. But it was so important to have our closest friends and family party with us on our big day that the extra work was totally worth it. Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Photographer: CK Hwang at 39 East Photography Ceremony: Sam's Town Hotel & Casino, Observation Deck Bowling and Reception: The Orleans Hotel and Casino, Stardust suite Bridal hair and makeup: Makeup in the 702 Transport and Elvis: Double Decker Bus of Las Vegas Dressmaker in Bangkok: Saville Row Custom Tailor Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! PREVIOUS The unplugged wedding: couples tell guests to put down their devices NEXT How to have an unplugged wedding: copy 'n' paste wording and templates Show/Hide comments [ 7 ] Your wedding looks so joyful! LOVE the photo of you and your dad dancing down the aisle. Reply OMG all the little, quirky, amazing, sweet, simple, elegant, beautiful, fun, wonderful details in your wedding!! My head can haz exploded! Your photographer did an incredible job because those are some gorgeous shots! The one photo of you laying your head on your husband's shoulder…your eye color really POPS out in that one and it's super sweet. Reply I have never seen Sam's Town look so beautiful! I never realized the amazing architecture they have way up there on that observation deck! I grew up in Vegas and I thank you for showing me something from my hometown that until now, I had never appreciated. Fantastic wedding, and best wishes to you guys! Reply Holy mackerel, what a wedding! Did you notice that in every picture every guest is grinning hugely? I can only hope that my wedding ends up being such a joyful affair. Congratulations, you guys! Reply -in-love- with her dress!! this is beautiful! Reply love all the red! Reply I'm in love with that dress. In love! The hot pink accents look so amazing, they add a touch of whimsy to the dress. Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! 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