Cake-loving kids, herb centerpieces, and some bad-ass wedding parties #Wedding Porn#bride in pants#brides in glasses#diy centerpiece#geeky#kids#kilts#non-floral centerpiece#short hair#tattooed bride December 10 2012 | Catherine Clark bijouxandbits Photo by Rosalie Hincks Photography Guys, the littlest wedding attendants at Kathleen's wedding have needs, too! These signs are a pretty adorable way to add some levity and get the kids involved. (The other sign reads "Hey Uncle Tommy, here comes your bride!") In addition to this bit of reader-submitted sweetness, we've got some actual cake (with geeky toppers!), a handfasting with lovely herb centerpieces, and a fair few wedding party shots. The Offbeat Bride Tribe, Flickr pool, and Pinterest were good to us this week. Tribesmaid Astrastarr's memorial on her bouquet also included her "something blue": a D10! Photo by Spectacle Photo OH and check out their Star Trek cake toppers: Kirk and Uhura! Photo by Spectacle Photo Jonathon, his officiant, and his groomsmen get all West Side Story on us. Photo by Jorie Tappa Photography Not to be outdone by the groom's side, Jonathan's matching vest and bright shirt-wearing bride gets a little captain in her. I LOVE that she's wearing that outfit! Photo by Jorie Tappa Photography Tribesmaid Spiralspeaker and her groom tie the knot during their handfasting. I love the way her dress frames that amazing tattoo. Photo by Knots & Tots Photography Related Post Maddy & Jacob's garden and arcade geeky wedding A rainbow xkcd cake with raptor cake topper, an arcade party with Donkey Kong favors, and a gorgeous garden ceremony that blends tradition while shaking... Read more Spiralspeaker also had super useful and pretty centerpieces that her mom made with herbs and a list of their magical properties. Photo by Knots & Tots Photography Sarah and Jon's wedding party looks rad together in their fashion shots. So much hotness. Photo by JBe Photography One more shot of bad-assery: brass knuckle groomsmen gifts with their names engraved! Photo by JBe Photography Click these bootylicious Clicky Links: What we've pinned this week: an amazing feather necklace, fabulous shoulder jewelry, and nude and black ombre nails! Royal Steamline is offering Offbeat Bride readers 20% off all of their printable invitations and save-the-date cards! Use coupon code: RS-DIYOBB (offer ends Dec. 15!) Towleroad featured West Point's first ever same-sex marriage held at their church. The two ladies had been together for 17 years! ABC shared a middle school love letter from a Florida couple who were then married 22 years later. I love this DIYed button headband from Jewels by Julia. Offbeat Home hilariously shares where you can stash your sex toys when you share your living space. Find us on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, and Flickr! Want to see yourself in our Monday Montage? Submit your photos to the Offbeat Bride Flickr Pool. (Oh, and don't forget to credit your photographer!) Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Catherine Clark Catherine Clark is Offbeat Bride's Senior Editor. In her spare time she loiters at her local library, makes art, watches movies en masse, plays video and tabletop games, poorly cooks healthy things, cuddles with her feline fur baby, and blogs at BijouxandBits.com. @enidjcoleslaw @bijouxandbits @bijouxandbits PREVIOUS Hanae & Shawn's ferns and feathers farm wedding NEXT 9 tips for a disability-friendly wedding (…especially when you're not visibly disabled) Show/Hide comments [ 3 ] While I'm kind of over the little kids with signs, I absolutely adore the compilation photo of the wedding party for Sarah and Jon! I think it gives each party member a chance to display their unique personalities and gets away from the standard line up. Reply Holy crap! The last two pics are my wedding! Thanks for the love! Reply I really like the use of the gates as a backdrop for these wedding pictures Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.