A “short, round, and very busty” girl’s guide to having a dress custom made

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 | Photography by Claire Morris
Photos by Claire Morris
Photos by Claire Morris

The idea of wedding dress shopping was something I had always found challenging. I love clothes and am very feminine in my fashion tastes, so you would think wedding dress shopping would be right up my street! But I had many friends who had told me how difficult, even humiliating, dress shopping could be.

As someone who is short, round, and very busty, I hated the idea of being clamped into an off-the-peg sample dress four sizes too small. I looked at dresses aimed at curvier brides and felt that most of them were ugly, and seemed to be about hiding your body, not celebrating it. I knew any dress I bought in a bridal store would have to be massively modified to fit me. So instead of dealing with all that, I started thinking about having a dress made-to-measure.

Search for dresses online

I did a lot of research online, and The Couture Company was a place I felt very excited about just from its website. There were fun, flirty dresses, darkly romantic dresses, coolly elegant dresses… And they were modeled by women of different sizes.

See the dresses you like in real life

I decided I wanted to see the dresses in person, and so in November we went to the first Eclectic Wedding Extravaganza. There I got to see the dresses I like in action, and they were as beautiful as I'd hoped! And as a bonus, I won 20% off a commission as part of a competition. That made up my mind.

Do more research online

I spent the next couple of months happily honing my Pinterest boards until I had a pretty good idea in my head of what I wanted. I knew I wanted a '50s style dress with sleeves, a full skirt and petticoats, and I wanted soft vintage shades.

Choose a seamstress and get measured

In February I left my husband-to-be, Kieran, in a snug coffee shop and popped around the corner to visit the shop I fell in love with.

I took my trusty iPad along to show Jo, the shop owner, the kinds of dresses I was interested in, and she suggested I try on the a particular dress. I loved the way it swished, and the shape of it was very flattering. From there we discussed sleeve length, petticoats (lots please!) and colours.

I knew I didn't want a white dress, but I wanted something a little bridal. Jo brought out some lovely cream dupion silk and I was sold by its warmth and texture. I chose coloured silk for my belt and to trim my petticoats. And then Jo had the great idea of coloured buttons running down the back of my dress — just the kind of cute detail I like!

I also ordered a corset, to give me a good silhouette and so I wouldn't have to worry about bra straps peeking out!

It was a very smooth, simple process, because I already had a good idea of what I wanted, and Jo was very easily able to translate that into a design.

Keep in touch as the dress is being made

Over the next few months, things continued to go very smoothly. I watched The Couture Company's Facebook page, and one day I saw a dress with a flash of brightly-coloured petticoats underneath it. “That's what I want,” I emailed Jo, and she was very happy to tweak my order to make me pale blue petticoats.

I loved going to fittings; I could see my dress slowly unfolding. When it came to my final fitting, there were no tears. I've never cried because I've looked at myself, and I didn't feel the need to cry this time, either!

Feel amazing

I've heard of brides saying they didn't recognize themselves when they tried on their dresses. But I looked in the mirror and saw me. Me in a wonderful ice cream-toned dress with petticoats that swirled in just the way I imagined. And I was very happy, because I had a dress that was about me, not about how anyone else thought I should look.

Our wedding day was wonderful, and my dress was a big part of that. It may have taken three bridesmaids half an hour to lace up my corset, when it had taken five minutes in the shop, but we got there in the end! Two hours later I was walking down the aisle, and Kieran's face lit up. As I reached him at the altar he said I looked beautiful, and I believed him.

dresses: The Couture Company

Comments on A “short, round, and very busty” girl’s guide to having a dress custom made

  1. I want to see more shots of her dress 🙁 I was looking for the blue petticoat.

  2. Yay!!! I’m another Couture Company bride. Jo from start to finish was amazing!! Totally agree with feeling like me in my dress. 🙂

  3. I got the corset to go under my dress from the Couture Company. Jo made my boobs defy gravity!

  4. I’m a 5’5″ busty, short-waisted girl and I also did not like going dress shopping. Everything squeezed my belly in ways I didn’t like, showed to much or too little of my chest, or itched, or just didn’t fit right, so I went custom as well.
    I’m waiting for my dress to come next week and really looking forward to it. 🙂

  5. The dress is perfectly crafted for her. Do you have like this for kids? My daughter is currently looking for what to wear (as a flower girl) on my sister’s wedding. So far, we are considering to purchase from here http://www.wallao.com. I’m curious is someone here could help me. Thank you in advance!

  6. Are there any more dress pictures anywhere? I am a huge fan of coloured petticoats and LOVE the sound of coloured buttons down the back! 🙂

  7. Hi everyone! Thanks for the lovely comments!

    Firstly – the photographer is the lovely Claire Morris. You can see her blog post on our wedding here: http://www.clairemorrisphotography.com/vintage-wedding-photographer-in-york/

    Scroll down for a petticoat shot!

    Also, I think there was a slight hiccup in editing where I talked about the particular dress I tried on. So my dress was made to my specifications and with my design features but it used an existing style as a template (Jo’s “Steph dress” in case you are interested)!

    • The buttons! They are adorable! I’m definitly saving that idea for my own dress.

    • I posted a journal entry the other day about how I’ve gone off the boil with wedding excitement/planning. Looked at your photos and the excitement is back – they are GORGEOUS! The dress! The buttons! The shot of you looking back and laughing next to a big no entry sign is absolutely beautiful!

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