Look at all these customizable lesbian cake topper options from Custom Laser Studio

Unhappy truth: It's hard to find an abundance of gay-friendly and/or gender-neutral wedding stuff. Our gender-bending, same-sex-loving friends constantly get the shaft. Recently, we got a request for advice on where to find same-sex cake toppers, so I thought I'd show you some of the ones I've found over the years…

Weddingstar is an interesting company. They're the ones that brought us some of the most barf-tastic and insulting cake toppers, but they're also one of only companies that make a bride-in-a-suit topper and sell their mini-people in separates, like this bride, and the more casual groom in grey.

Gay unicorn cake toppers on Etsy. Photo by Wild About You Photography
Lesbian cake topper from Etsy seller Custom Laser Studio

How much do we love that this cake topper has two brides in suits? And then there's this one, with two high-fiving brides:


And then of course there's this “Finally Mr & Mr” gay cake topper.

But maybe you don't want that laser-cut vibe. Maybe you want cute little sculptures. BEHOLD!

nerdy gay caketoppet
Adorably nerdy gay cake toppers from World Cake Topper


When you also really love dinosaurs…. GAY DINOSAURS!



STAAAAHP. How cute are these little bear grooms?

Does anyone else out there have advice on where to find good gay and lesbian cake toppers? If so, leave 'em in the comments.

Comments on Unique gay and lesbian cake toppers

  1. My girlfiend and I used the Died and Groomed mini living dead dolls. Whilest not two females it fitted in with our black and red themed and was such a different idea gender didnt facture in.

  2. Fiance and I are looking for something specific. Have seen and fallen in love with cake toppers that are 2 rings. Sadly, they are all for straight couples and one of the rings always comes with a “diamond” on top. Would totally be up for just ripping the “diamond” off, but I think that would probably leave an awkward mark. Anyone seen toppers of just two plain silver/titanium/platinum looking bands?

  3. I work at a photo lab and recently developed a customer’s photos… He and his husband used two stuffed teddies dressed as grooms. It was adorable, and totally fitting because they were bears ;D love it!

  4. I want to see a bride caketopper in a black tux for once, real smooth and classy like James Bond. *drool*

  5. I’m trying to track down the perfect Alice and Mad Hatter for my soon-to-be wifey and I. I don’t want the Disney version. I would be fine with the Tim Burton style, but I would prefer something styled after the original illustration. Any ideas?

  6. Wouldn’t it be a better idea to get those paintable figurines of anime & sci-fi characters. Not sure what they’re generically called, but I find them on most geek dedicated sites. Also, how about asking a friend for a tiny figurines sculpted in clay or play-doh- that could be thier wedding gift to you or if you can do it, great!

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