"Sea monster hair" inspired Alex & Greg's peacock fairy tale wedding #Real Weddings: Southern US#blue hair#disability#florida#green hair#peacock feathers#plus size#purple hair#tattooed bride#tattooed groom#winter Updated Mar 15 2021 (Posted Apr 2 2015) Offbeat Editors Photos by: Brian C. Idocks Photographics Photos by Brian C. Idocks Photographics The Offbeat Bride: Alex, Domestic Violence Advocate and MSW Student (and Offbeat Bride Tribe member) Her offbeat partner: Greg, Sr. Pharmacy Technician and college student Date and location of wedding: The Vinoy, St. Petersburg, FL – — February 28, 2015 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: Greg pretty much gave me free license to be my silly, dramatic self and run with it. I asked him his priorities several times and he would make jokes about that as long as I showed up he didn’t care about anything else. So, I ran with it and realized this avant-garde peacock fairy tale. For almost the entirety of our relationship I have been wearing my hair in a "sea monster" type coloring consisting of blues, greens, and purples. I asked Greg how he felt about those colors being our wedding colors and he gave me the go ahead. I felt calling the theme "sea monster" wouldn't really describe the classiness of the event we were creating, so we decided to call it “peacock." The more we looked at the peacock colors, the more we got into the concept of "peacock" as a theme. Plus the theme resulted in our guests getting really in to the color scheme. My something borrowed is the beautiful amethyst and diamond pendant that my mom stranded in to a three-strand pearl necklace that she made for me. My mom took on a lot of tasks. She also ended up finishing my Swarovski-encrusted wedges and making a lot of bracelets as favors. Tell us about your ceremony: I walked down the aisle with both parents to the Phantom of the Opera main theme played by a string quartet. I felt that my mom had as much a part as my dad in raising me and I wanted to honor both of them. We had two readings, the first was done by my younger brother, “Superbly Situated” by Robert Herschon. The second was done by a very close friend of my mother and long term friend of the family who I have known my whole life. She read Maya Angelou’s “Touched By An Angel." While looking in to unity ceremonies, nothing really stuck out to me until I found out about Unity in Glass through Offbeat Bride so we ended up using them. We haven’t gotten our piece yet but are really looking forward to it. Our string quartet played The Cure’s “Lovesong” during this bit of our ceremony. One funny moment was that Greg put on my wedding band backwards so it pinched me pretty bad and I had to adjust it. I also didn’t know where to stand as I’ve never attended anyone else’s wedding and we didn’t do a rehearsal… whoops. Tell us about your reception: Being a more introverted couple, we decided to do a late morning ceremony followed by a lunch reception. This gave us the opportunity to go out to dinner ourselves with the bonus that fewer people expected us to dance as we aren't really dancers. That said, we knew we had to have something for our guests to do, so we rented a photo booth. At one point my younger brother borrowed a prop of the Viking hat and wore it for most of the reception until the man running the photo booth reclaimed it when he was packing up. We served miso teriyaki grouper with baby bok choy and kimchi slaw as our entrée. Our cake was two flavors baked by the Vinoy’s in-house pastry chef as we couldn’t decide. The top and bottom tier was amaretto raspberry swirl with white chocolate mousse, and the middle tier was rum cake with amaretto mousse, both were finished in Italian buttercream icing. What was the most important lesson you learned from your wedding? Any other advice for Offbeat Bride readers? The biggest challenge that I'm still working on getting over is losing our ceremony site to rain. In hindsight, I wish I would have made a plan to get umbrellas and weather the storm as even wet, our ceremony site was much nicer than the back-up space. However, we are in the process of working with the venue and our photographer to go back and get pictures with the ceremony site around the time of our one-year anniversary. Related Post 9 tips for a disability-friendly wedding (…especially when you're not visibly disabled) Unless I'm moving around none of my disabilities are particularly visible. However amongst our guests we had lots of friends and relatives with health issues... Read more Also, as a disabled person with a chronic condition, I was really not prepared for how demanding the reception and everything else would be on my body. I ended up kicking off my beautiful shoes right before walking down the aisle, which is why I’m carrying my dress in several pictures. Vendors Photography: Brian C. Idocks Photographics Bride's Hair: Anne Burke with JCON Bride's Makeup: Hoch Unity Ceremony: Unity In Glass Flowers & Centerpieces: Braun's Fine Flowers Linens & Chair Covers: Everlasting Event Rentals String Quartet: Strings Attached Photo booth: Excellent! Entertainment Uplighting: Bay Stage Live Venue: The Vinoy Dress: The Dressing Room Tux: Sacino's Formal Wear Rings: Helzberg Diamonds Honeymoon Travel Agent: A-Aron's Travel Hair color and extensions: Cassandra Bradshaw with Star Booty Salon This post features Offbeat Vendors! Check out their vendor listing to see how they cater to Offbeat Brides: Unity in Glass PREVIOUS "Is it too early to start planning my wedding just because I'm a fetus?" and more wedding hilarity from The Every Bride NEXT How we're talking to religious guests unsure if they want to attend our lesbian wedding Show/Hide comments [ 17 ] Very gorgeous wedding. I'm adding it to my inspiration favourites 🙂 Reply OMG! So beautiful. Your peacock purse is STUNNING and perfect. I love everything. Your dress is gorgeous! Reply AHHH! Your hair is AMAZING!!! You guys are both so beautiful! Reply I LOVE the hair!! As someone who just recently ventured into having some fun dying my hair, I can't imagine the time and care it must take for all those colors! When it comes to my hair…..I have NO patience! 🙂 Reply This is beautiful!! I absolutely love your hair, FH is so against my wish for turquoise tips though…whomp. Your pictures are awesome and really inspirational. My colors are turquoise & purple and I have similar centerpieces (calla lilies in cylindrical vases), so seeing these images is like seeing my vision come to life. Wishing you two many years of wedded bliss 🙂 Reply Just a thought but we have some lovely black & white photos from our day as well. If I ever need to be more conventional, those will be the wedding pictures in my office – if future hubby's opposition to the teal tips is for photographic reasons, that could be a solution for you. 🙂 Reply hey alex! can i ask what shape wear you wore if any? my dress is similar and you look amazing! Reply What does that mean, freshwater peacock pearls?? How would they fit or not fit?? I must know!!!! Reply My guess is my mom missed a word. She beaded the fresh water pearls in to bracelets in a variety of sizes as favors. 🙂 Reply Wow!! The colour scheme is fabulous, the couple look gorgeously happy and the decorations are so elegant and funky at the same time. But can we just take a moment to appreciate The Hair. It's like an impressionist painting. Gorgeous! Reply Dammit. I just promised my fiance that I'd stop questioning my dress choice and then I see yours! Holy cow. Everything about this wedding just blows me away. So gorgeous. Reply The colours in the venue photo are freakin gorgeous!! Reply That hair is a million types of awesome! 😛 Reply Gorgeous wedding. And the menu sounded really good! Reply Wow! Beautiful bride – loooove the hair- cute couple, gorgeous wedding colors, plus you must not live that far from me (if you live near st pete) …let's be friends! LOL. Reply You MUST share with me your hair witchery. Reply Love love love the brides hair and the centerpieces so beautiful Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.