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How do you feel about your wedding? What does it all mean? How does wedding planning a metaphor for the rest of your life?

When people don’t think you’re excited enough about your wedding

I do not feel squealy and elated when I talk about my wedding, and this seems to disappoint (and sometimes even upset) other people. How can I address others’ unsolicited wedding enthusiasm without seeming negative or rude?

Marry this, bitches — four ways to save your sanity

This is a very old post, back from Offbeat Bride’s early days. But it still holds true!