How to have an unplugged wedding in 2020

An unplugged wedding isn’t for everyone — some couples want to skip a professional photog in favor of guests capturing the moments, while others simply aren’t bothered by the idea of devices pointed at them while they say their I dos.

But if you feel irked by the idea of friends and family taking in your big day from behind a screen, consider the following…  

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My Vows-First Wedding

I'm soooo tired of the wedding thing: the planning, the stressing, the fears that I'm not doing it right…and for what? By making my wedding unusual, authentic, personal, and different — okay, offbeat — I'm already almost guaranteeing that it won't meet everyone's expectations.

That's why I'm making mine a vows-first wedding.

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Macabre wedding reading: I Want to Die While You Love Me

This wedding reading may be a bit macabre for some, but I've always loved poems that possess a certain darkness and beauty at the same time. This poem is one of my favorites and is a great way to get some "'til death do us part" or slightly goth vibes into your wedding ceremony…