Dealing with guest list drama #Friends & Family Advice#family#family drama#guest list#guests#small wedding#video Updated Oct 12 2015 (Posted Feb 27 2008) Ariel findyourafterglow It's another episode of Offbeat Bride video advice! Woohoo! Apologies for the delay on this one — this vid is actually a few weeks old (my hair is now six inches shorter), but I was having issues with my camera's memory card. Bla bla bla, technical difficulties whatever — here we go! Offbeat Bride Advice: Dealing with guest list drama! from arielmeadow on Vimeo. Ariel Author of three editions of the Offbeat Bride book and the brand-new From Shitshow To Afterglow, Ariel Meadow Stallings acts as the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire websites. She lives in Seattle with her son, and if she's not reading or writing books, chances are good that she's dancing or happy-crying. To follow her latest work, join join The Afterglow, for exclusive access to essays, videos, online courses, and more. PREVIOUS How to style your dreads on your wedding day NEXT Earrings for brides with stretched lobes Show/Hide comments [ 5 ] Good "post", Ariel. Reply It also works if you have a big extended family to have a cut off that you absolutely adhere to. For example, only first cousins are invited. This way, there is an organized limit. Reply Make sure all your pre-party guest know they are not invited to the wedding and please, please don't call it a shower. It will come off as gift-grabb-y as showers are a gift event. Reply Great advice…we are just starting to deal with that and I'll keep your ideas in mind! Reply Thank you! You may have saved my wedding! 🙂 Reply Join the conversation Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Sign me up for your offbeat awesomeness newsletter! No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.