The short answer: very, VERY carefully. The longer answer? Watch. Oh and sorry for the barfing baby. < Previous Post Lanterns instead of bouquets Next Post > A peek behind the offbeat curtain About the Author: Ariel @arielmstallings Author of three editions of the Offbeat Bride book and its sequel (From Shitshow To Afterglow, the ultimate offbeat breakup book) Ariel Meadow Stallings is the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire web properties. She lives in Seattle with her son. To read her latest writing, follow @arielist on Medium.