Taffeta-free alternatives for the Mother of the Bride’s Dress

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The thought of our batik and blue jeans-loving artist mother donning a demure taffeta sheath and bolero for the wedding strikes us all (but most of all my mom) as a little silly, but she'd still like to wear something festive that reflects her special relationship to the bride and groom.


She's stuck, my sister's stuck, I'm stuck. We'd love some offbeat ideas for the mother of the bride! -Megan

I consulted with my own mom about this one since she too is not the sheath and bolero type. She's a cool chick and totally understands how to look fashionable, non-frumpy, and age appropriate all at the same time.

Your mom should wear something that not only looks and feels good, but that expresses her style (and potentially the style of the wedding!). Here are some suggestions for the Offbeat Bride and Groom's moms out there. (Note: most of these come in plus sizes too!)

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How about this taupe and lime color-blocking with all those pleats from Jessica Simpson? Adorable.


Destination wedding in Hawaii? Color-loving mom? This might be her dream dress. IGIGI, an awesome plus-size shop, brings you “Rainforest Paradise” maxi.

This empire-waisted, swing skirted dress from Roaman's has a little bit of a retro vibe.


Kiyonna is such an amazing brand for plus-sized women. They really understand how to work the curves. This dress is all scallop, lace, and just the right amount of stretch. It also comes in classic black.

This crochet-style casual dress from Roaman's would be perfect for an outdoor or barbecue wedding. Or, you know, in my closet! It comes in five colors and plus size too.

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So, what is your (or your partner's) mom planning to wear? Let us know in the comments.

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Comments on Taffeta-free alternatives for the Mother of the Bride’s Dress

  1. I used to work at a store specializing in clothing for the “mother of the bride” age group, and I can say that for weddings, its was always Linda Lundstrom.

    This look is typical of the funkier styles that are age appropriate. And if it wasn’t Lundstrom, it was Joseph Ribkoff. Just a heads up for people who don’t know where to start with the 40-65 year old woman fashion bracket.

    • For my cousin’s wedding the bridesmaids wore black, so my aunt (the MOG) found a classy A-line black dress (clearance after prom!) that looked demure yet young. So if she wants to go formal, post-prom shopping is a viable option!

  2. I totally love the Peggy Would dress and it’d look fantastic on my mum – but we are in the UK and because my mum is an interesting size and shape buying stuff off the web w/o trying it on first is usually a disaster. Any British OBBs got any ideas for dresses of a similar shape?

    • I’m a British OBB and my mum is tall, plus sized and hates dresses. She wore black trousers and a stunning teal tunic top from monsoon. Monsoon seem to do more sizes (size 22) in their store than they appeared to online. But if Mum hadn’t found that, I think we would have struggled to find something the right size, appropriateness and offbeat!

    • Hi, I’m also British. My mum has never gone in for formal clothes, and had also never bought a whole outfit at once, or found something for a specific event.
      She went out for the day to Ascot with a friend and found a wonderful outfit, all from one shop.I know it sounds a funny place to go, but if you have any smart towns near you, a trip to one of their women’s clothes shops might do the trick – her outfit was not traditional MOB, but very classy (a fitted orange dress) and age appropriate (good quality material, not too low cut etc) without being at all frumpy. The staff in the shop were helpful and friendly too: they thought about her style and what would suit her, took into account that she was the MOB, made recommendations for accessories etc. The dress was about £150.
      Good luck, but whatever happens, like the bride she’ll look awesome as a wedding is a happy day and it shows!

  3. Where was this post last week??? My mom finally found an MOB dress that she’s happy with, but that Whirling Turban dress really would have been perfect.

  4. My Mom was 49 years old when I got married this summer and she also struggled as MOB clothes are often old-ladyish and frumpy- which she is not. She wore a black knee-length dress with a sparkly purple and yellow Joseph Ribkoff jacket. http://www.flickr.com/photos/[email protected]/4797596334/in/set-72157624505767394/ and his mom hates skirts/dresses and really wanted to be ‘comfortable’ so she wore black cigarette pants and a pink jacket that really brought colour to her face (it’s also her favorite colour) http://www.flickr.com/photos/[email protected]/4797596666/in/set-72157624505767394They both looked great and like themselves 🙂

  5. My mom got this cool Jones New York dress for my wedding next year. Its knee length, v-neck and royal blue. Its more like a cocktail dress than a MOB dress. As a bonus, it was on clearance at J.C. Penny’s for $40. MOB dresses are so frumpy and conservative and BORING.

  6. Ha! My mom is planning on wearing something very much like the Fall Holiday Suit by Donna Vinci! Same colour too! Hers doesn’t have the sparkly bits, but then, she’s 76, and that’s so not her style. I love all these ideas though! Those horrible MOB dresses I’ve seen in bridal shops are so not all that’s out there for MOBs! or Mother’s of the Groom either, they want to look nice too!

  7. A friend saw this post and sent it to me even before I got it through my feed. What a great idea for a post. I’m really tickled that ‘Isolde’ was listed among all the dresses. You know, I’d actually never thought of Isolde as an MOB dress before; it pretty much looks good on anyone. But it would totally work as an MOB dress. And yeah, Isolde is completely eco-friendly, right down to the organic cotton thread.

    Thanks for including it in your list!

    (Hrm. Maybe I should start designing MOB dresses…)

    ::off to make more gowns::

  8. ah, wish this post had gone up a few weeks ago! My mum was agonising over what to wear. She ended up finding a great dress that totally co-ordinated with mine and looked lovely on her, but I would have loved to have been able to give her some other options. Sadly I was a bit too busy to do much searching on my own.

  9. My mom wore a dress with a long flowy jacket that came from Larue’s in Mineapolis 10ish years ago. I don’t know what sort of things they have now, but that store is where my dad has done some of his best shopping. http://www.larues.com/

  10. I agree with the fact that “regular” MOB/MOG dresses are just so atrociously ugly. Why do makers of these dresses think that our moms don’t want to look great too? My mother is wearing a tan wool suit with a silk blouse (very not “traditional” MOB) and FMIL is wearing a loose, georgette, knee-length dress with a nice jacket over it. Its color (very light/pinky beige) and subtle rhinestone detailing make it very not MOG as well. I think the key for shopping for offbeat MOB/MOG dresses is to NOT search for dresses under than nomiker. Search for suits, sleeved cocktail dresses, or just general styles your moms like, instead.

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