Wedding gift ideas for people who didn't f***ing register! #Advice#gifts#registry June 9 | Megan Finley meggyfin This Leather Luggage Tag from Etsy seller Exsect would make a great gift for a destination wedding! My boss is a highly successful real estate agent, and she is getting married. I've only been working with her for a couple months, but we get along great. And I am so thrilled that she is getting married after a nasty divorce a few years back. Since this is the second marriage for each of them, they are not registering, and to top it off, it's a destination wedding! I want to get her something to celebrate the occasion, but nothing over the top if that makes sense. I'd love any advice or tips on this touchy subject! -Tori Related Post Is it okay to go off-registry for my friends' wedding gift? One of my friends is getting married in about a month, and I checked out her registry to see what kinds of things she and... Read more Hey! I'm a person getting married for the second time, who didn't have a registry (until we were forced to cave due to various requests). Perhaps I can be of assistance. Here are my wedding gift ideas for "what to get the people who don't want to tell you to get them, but you pretty much feel like you need and want to get them something anyway"… Booze The most useful "we don't know what to get you gifts" we received at our engagement party was straight-up booze. We like to have people over for parties, so even if it was stuff we don't necessarily drink, it was nice to stock the bar. If you feel like you want to throw in a little extra something, gift them booze-y accessories to go with your drink of choice… Himalayan salt tequila glasses to go with your bottle of tequila. Have Etsy seller HAMMERHEADdesigns make a personalized copper bottle tag to go with their favorite bottle of booze. Holy crap, why didn't someone gift ME this awesome $20 set of aerating wine glasses! Hosting helpers Do your friends host a lot of parties, or like to cook? Then things that make hosting a breeze are always welcome… This soapstone platter can be heated or chilled to keep your dishes at the perfect temperature for serving. Ice molds for fun party ice. The Satellite Bowl can be folded up for easy storage. Large Personalized Platter from Etsy seller Susabellas Practical gifts I'm telling you, there's nothing better than an Amazon gift certificate for my family. We order all kinds of home goods from there, from cat food to detergent. That's always a welcome gift. Or a gift certificate to Nordstrom, where she can shop for clothing to rock during their honeymoon. There's an entire, wonderful destination vacation section! Gifts that donate to charity Set of Love pins that go towards the ACLU. Know what causes or things they're passionate about? Have they mentioned their interest in politics? Maybe donate to a cause they support. Or maybe they're always gushing about their adopted pet? Can you sneakily find out what rescue they used, and donate to them? Or, you could spearhead a large office-wide charity gift for them? Or keep it small, and find a gift that also gives the proceeds to charity. Just send flowers Go classic, old-school, "thinking of you" and just send them flowers! Maybe a little "something blue" to make it wedding specific? What did you get for the couple who didn't register? Anything I'm missing here? Get your daily dose of Offbeat AWESOME Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Megan Finley Megan Finley is the LA-based Offbeat Empire editor. When she's not writing, editing, and sleeping, she's eating, drinking, and geeking. You can snoop into her personal life over on her website Funk in Deep Freeze! @meggyfin @meggyfin PREVIOUS We are blown away by the spectacle of this Iceland hiking elopement NEXT This wedding is super gay! 5 ways to make your wedding gay as hell Show/Hide comments [ 4 ] We didn't register (asked folks to donate to charity, which many did) but some folks still took it on themselves to give gifts. Several people gave us "date nights" – gift cards for a movie theater or restaurant, or board games you can play with just two people. Also my cousin gave us really nice sunglasses, which we forgot to take on our honeymoon but will come in super handy for all of our planned summer adventures. Reply My husband and I didn't register because we desperately, desperately hoped for money–to pay the bill from the wedding! If a couple doesn't ask for registery items, consider the fact that they might need other things they can't ask for, like a mortgage payment. 🙂 Money is a-ok and appreciated! 4 agree Reply We didn't register either. Many of my husbands Italian relatives gave us envelopes as per tradition. Many of our friends gifted us gift cards for date nights. Which was awesome because when the wedding shine wears off we had date nights in a can ready and waiting. We were also gifted a lot of booze. Which was kind of awkward since my husband is an addict in recovery and sober. A lot of his old college buddies gifted us really really good bottles of wine and top shelf liqueur. It was very thoughtful and probably very expensive but we ended up re-gifting all most all of it. We did keep the good beer (for me) and the mid level wine to have on hand for hostess gifts & dinner parties. While I am not sober I didn't really think it was appropriate (of very fun) to crack open a 200$ bottle of campaign by myself. All I am saying is know the giftee. If they partied hard in college but you hadn't really drank with them since err on the side of caution. 2 agree Reply not registering = they want money. keep it simple. 3 agree Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Participate in this conversation via emailGet only replies to your comment, the best of the rest, as well as a daily recap of all comments on this post. No more than a few emails daily, which you can reply to/unsubscribe from directly from your inbox. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. 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