Michele & Douglas' fairy forest handfasting on a farm #Real Weddings: Western US#arch#black dress#corset#fairy wedding#farm#fascinator#handfasting#kids#logs#long-haired groom#mama bride#non-floral bouquet#outdoor#pinata#secular#washington April 16 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride Photos by: Wallflower Photography Photos by Wallflower Photography The Offbeat Bride: Michele, full-time student Her offbeat partner: Douglas, software engineer Date and location of wedding: Willie Green's Organic Farm, Monroe, WA — July 28, 2012 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We really wanted a fairy forest theme, but dang it, we also love Mexican food, so we had both! My brother built the arbor under which we held the ceremony. Our moms and my sister-in-law created custom fairy houses and woodland forest candles for decorating. We also used river rock for a guest book, and now we get to see those every day in our home. We did our best to stick to a budget, but we found out that it really adds up quickly. We figured we were never doing this again, and we mostly just wanted to throw an amazing party, so it was worth it. Tell us about the ceremony: The ceremony was supposed to have a bamboo grove as the backdrop, but the venue built a large gazebo a month before the wedding and blocked the bamboo grove. Thankfully, my brother's arbor with flowers all over it saved the day. It ended up meaning much more to us that way. We didn't want a religious ceremony, so we had a handfasting with the officiant using a Lord of the Rings collector's edition instead of a religious text. Douglas and I spent hours creating our handfasting cords, which our 11-year-old son carried out for us. Our 8-year-old son carried the rings. They were both so nervous that they were shaking! I wanted 15 minutes of bride and groom time right after the ceremony. Our guests respected our time and they seemed to enjoy the party without us for a little while. My favorite moment: I loved spending the rest of the afternoon after the ceremony visiting, dancing, eating, and hitting the piñata with family and friends. Having everyone we loved together for a party on a wonderful summer day, to celebrate our love, was amazing. My funniest moment: Our officiant was a mutual friend of ours for many years. We trusted him to write the entire vows section. But during the ceremony Timm asked us both a long and convoluted question (that I can't remember now) to which we honestly did not know the right answer. We stood there looking at him and he finally said "Well, are you going to answer?" We looked at each other and said, "We don't know what the right answer is!" Everyone was laughing. Timm did let us know that the correct answer was "yes!" Was there anything you were sure was going to be a total disaster that unexpectedly turned out great? By the time the wedding day arrived, we'd worked out all the kinks… or I should say our wedding coordinators had: Kelli and Brenda from Shindig Events! We didn't end up having the amount of power we were told we would have at the venue, but that just meant we didn't end up getting to use our bubble machine. It wasn't really a disaster, just a bummer. My advice for Offbeat Brides: Find a non-traditional wedding coordinator, if you can afford it. And ask your friends and family for ideas, if you are coming up short. Our most non-traditional elements came from asking family and friends. That's how we got our fairy woodland candles, fairy houses, and beautiful arbor (that now sits in our yard!). I just sent photos and gave them a general idea of what I wanted. Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Corset and skirt: Starkers Corsetry Fascinator: Unveiled Bridal Designs Photographer: Wallflower Photography Coordinator: Shindig Events Makeup: VAIN Shoes: Fluevog Groom's jacket: Metro Clothing Co. Bouquet: Bash and Bloom Bartenders: The Invisible Hostess Cupcakes: Cake Envy DJ: Music Masters Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! This post features Offbeat Vendors! Check out their vendor listing to see how they cater to Offbeat Brides: Shindig Events Starkers Corsetry VAIN Music Masters Get your daily dose of Offbeat AWESOME Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Friends as wedding vendors pros and cons: What I learned from getting our photos for free NEXT Bedazzle your ink for the wedding day Show/Hide comments [ 11 ] How did you make/where did you find those edible mushrooms and acorns? I love them and now I want 'em too. 6 agree Reply LOVE those! Adorbz. Reply I've seen them at Whole Foods! Reply I couldn't find the link but I've now made the effort since you've asked, lol. The ones I had were from http://lorismadeleines.com/ . These were the meringue mushrooms and acorns and they were very tasty. I also had my niece make some other acorns from here http://www.joyshope.com/2010/10/i-heart-lipstick-and-laundry.html using mini 'Nilla wafers, chocolate kisses and Nutella. I still have my pinterest page up here http://pinterest.com/sugarplumfaerie/fairy-woodland-wedding/ of all the ideas I collected and used to plan our wedding. Reply Thank-you for sharing this beautiful, creative wedding! Reply I'm so glad to share, I'm glad you liked it! It was the best wedding we've ever been to, lol!! Reply The little Fairy Homes are wonderful. If there is a way that you can convince to design and make some more, people will buy them at Festivals and Fairs. They look temporary and fragile but beautiful and I love and adore the fantasy and "miniature-ness" that went into the making!!!! 2 agree Reply I agree they are incredible and yes they are fragile, but as long as they aren't bumping around in the back of someone's truck (happened! grr!) they do quite well. We have most of them around the yard and porch. The ones under cover on the porch look great. Some of the others out in the weather have just now started to fall apart a little. Others are SOOO happy to be out in the wet because of all the moss on them, those ones are doing quite well. I'm still blown away by how amazing they are. I asked family to make these and I had no idea how they would do it, they figured it out and really wowed us! 1 agrees Reply Pretty nice wedding and lovely photos! I think I have a new favorite inspiration website. Thanks a lot 🙂 Reply This was such a FUN wedding to be a part of! There was so much attention paid to every little detail and Michele impressed me with her ideas that all worked so well together! She also did an amazing job of going with the flow when we had some challenges & focused on the day & the joy. YAYYYYYY!!!! 1 agrees Reply I would have never made it without you and Brenda! Best. Decision. Ever. to have ShinDig Events coordinate my wedding day!! Kelli and Brenda worked NON-STOP to make sure everything was amazing! Thanks soo much!! 1 agrees Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Participate in this conversation via emailGet only replies to your comment, the best of the rest, as well as a daily recap of all comments on this post. No more than a few emails daily, which you can reply to/unsubscribe from directly from your inbox. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. 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