Announcing the birth of our sister site: Offbeat Mama!

I did a lot of writerly navel-gazing on my blog, Electrolicious, while I was writing Offbeat Bride. I archived all those posts over here for posterity.

10 Nov 2008

Sacred GrovesJust a quick note to let you all know that posting will be lighter than usual this week because I'm off on a personal writing retreat at Sacred Groves working on what could become my next book … which has exactly NOTHING to do with weddings. (Sorry!)

My beloved offbeat intern, Miss Shrie, will be posting bride profiles as usual though, so you'll still have plenty of wedding eye candy to feast your greedy little offbeat eyes uponst.

Wish me luck — see y'all next week!

Happy new years, everyone! It was exactly one year ago today that I officially unveiled (har har) this website. And what a crazy fucking year it's been.

I spent the first half of 2006 aggressively promoting the hell out of my book the traditional ways, with readings all over the country and lots of press with radio interviews, newspaper articles, and tv appearances. It was really REALLY exhausting, often demoralizing, and didn't seem to do much for book sales, honestly. I mean, the book did fine … but not great.

The second half of the year I focused exclusively on promoting the book via this website and not only did book sales markedly improve, but I started making money from offbeat advertisements! Yay. That makes the entrepreneur in me happy. Traffic has gone from 8,000 visits in January 2007 to over 60,000 in December 2007. DAMN! You could draw all sorts of conclusions from this (mainstream media dead? print being eclipsed by web? elvis still alive?) but I'll just say that I'm happy it's working out. Thanks to each of you for being a part of that working out-ness!

With a year of content on the site now, I know it's easy for things to get lost in the archives … and with there being a whole new wave of freshly engaged offbeat brides for 2008, I'm going to start occasionally linking to older posts that I think have stood the test of time, just as a way to keep older stuff fresh in the minds of newer brides and to keep from having to repeat myself.

Also, incidentally, today is Andreas and my "real" anniversary. We don't really celebrate our wedding anniversary but we're all about our "kissaversary," which was New Years Day, 1998. WOOHOO! That baby wearing the pink wig? That was me the first night I kissed Andreas.

15 Oct 2006

I've been chewing over publishing trends, the Dooce suit, my own book coming out in a few months, and the emails I've gotten with book questions … this is to say, chewing over bloggers becoming authors. I'm hardly an expert on the subject other than my own personal experiences (my book and Columbia Publishing Course), but still … I've got some thought about bloggers becoming non-fiction authors. (Fiction is a whole different beast that I know nothing about.)

Continue reading "Bloggers to Authors" →

16 Aug 2006

As part of the editing process, the copyeditor who's working on my book put together a list of uncommon words that I used that she wanted to make sure she styled consistently. It cracks me up. What a window into the weirdness of my book! Want to see?

Continue reading "Offbeat Bride wordlist" →

Poor Patrick. He didn't know what he was getting into when he agreed to take a pass at my book:

****WHOA. UH. HMMM. I'M ALL FOR ASS-FUCKING REFERENCES, BUT THIS SORTA COMES OUT OF NOWHERE … ***

This made me laugh until I almost started crying. Trust me: the reference makes perfect sense in context, so I chose to STET the edit. Which means that yes, my book about weddings mentions ass-fucking at one point.


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