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One of things my fiancé and I most cherish about our relationship is that we lead the kind of double-life worthy of one of the superhero comic books he loves so much. Normally, we are responsible, hard-working citizens who live and parent together in a small, quiet town. But after a quick change in a phone booth (aka, when my ex has the kids and we travel), we become adventurers well-versed in kink and non-monogamy who love to find weird bars, get tattoos, and go out dancing until the wee hours of the morning.

So it stands to reason that we have to plan not one but two weddings…

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A queer femme/transfeminine interfaith feminist celeGAYtion

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"We have a polyamorous family. I have been married to Ben for 11 years, Audree has been married to Allan for 11 years, Allan and I are partners, and Ben and Audree are partners. The four of us live together with our children." This wedding joined Katie and Audree together, which then bound them all together in love as one family. Let's give a collective "AW" to this sweet family-focused polyamorous wedding.

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A poly-friendly and non-possessive ceremony script (with three rings!)

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