You might remember Uggh as the person who helped you make your own brooch bouquet. But she's also the person who's gonna help you get your friend to officiate your California wedding.

Djinnaya and Jason's San Francisco wedding was also officiated by a friend.
I recently set about researching the requirements for having a family member officiate a wedding ceremony in California. Here's the crazy weird thing. There are two options:
- You can get your family member deputized for a day for a cost of $120.
- You can get him ordained online for free and then he can perform weddings for anybody when the mood strikes him. Hell, he could start a whole wedding business if he wanted.
I went online and did a little research into the two options, just to make sure I was reading this correctly because it still baffles me, but yes, in fact, this is the way it works in California (I can't vouch for other states; I have a sneaking suspicion that there might be some additional requirements in other jurisdictions). At any rate, I thought someone out here might be interested in how this works, so here is a summary. Continue reading »













