I opted to not carry a bouquet; put something, anything, in my hands and watch me awkwardly bend, fold and fondle it into oblivion. Plus, for some strange reason, I didn't feel like spending a load of money for flowers that I was just going throw away at the end of the day. But if I wasn't so fidgety I would have definitely been one of those brides that opted for a bouquet alternative to flowers.

Since Offbeat Bride Kerry started a discussion called "Bouquet Alternatives" on the Offbeat Bride Tribe a wealth of amazing offbeat bouquet porn has been popping up. I thought I'd share a few of the unique and inspiring ideas.

OBT member Zan suggested making this bouquet out of "beautiful, cheap, fashionable feathers" that she'd seen at Hobby Lobby.

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I'm getting married in September and am thinking about not carrying anything (flowers, etc) when walking down the aisle. I love flowers, but I don't really feel like having something that I will only hold for about 10 minutes. What are your thoughts? Has anyone else done the same? -Rebecca

I've seen plenty of instances where folks replace flowers with something else — like Jesse's bridesmaids carrying candles. Some brides walk with a book in their hand (usually the bible, but could just as well be the karma sutra), framed photographs, or other family heirlooms. Apple Bride has some great bouquet alternative ideas like a parasol, fan, muff (heh), or sparklers — but that's not what you're really asking about, right? You want to walk down the aisle without a prop at all, yes?

I think it would be deeply romantic to walk down the aisle holding only the hand of your beloved. The two of you could enter separately, meet and clasp hands, and then walk toward the officiant together hand-in-hand. Very simple, very romantic, and no bouquet or other props involved.