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We're planning two weddings: family-friendly AND kink-friendly

One of things my fiancé and I most cherish about our relationship is that we lead the kind of double-life worthy of one of the superhero comic books he loves so much. Normally, we are responsible, hard-working citizens who live and parent together in a small, quiet town. But after a quick change in a phone booth (aka, when my ex has the kids and we travel), we become adventurers well-versed in kink and non-monogamy who love to find weird bars, get tattoos, and go out dancing until the wee hours of the morning.

So it stands to reason that we have to plan not one but two weddings…

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Black wedding shoes for your darkest fantasies

Last August I took a break from my steady stream of colorful wedding shoes to focus on black & sparkly shoes. It must be a summer thing… all that sunlight burns my heart into a blackened little crisp and all I want is DARK DARK DARRRRK and slightly kinky shoes. So this week I'm going for some somewhat fantastical black footwear. Proceed at your own peril.

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Up your wedding outfit's sexiness with leather harnesses

If you're looking for a seriously stylish and sexy way to hint at your love of kink, or you're putting together an outfit for a collaring ceremony, OR you simply need an edgy accessory for your wedding outfit, consider a harness like these ones from Zana Bayne. Imagine the above outfit with a jacket overtop, the harness just peeking through. …Turned on yet?