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Love the vibes of this modern diamond engagement ring

While my sweetie and I DO want to exchange rings, we DON'T want to spend a lot of money on them, and we have no interest in traditional, mainstream wedding rings.

We want something simple, and different.

We live in a town that doesn't have anything like that, so online is our best bet.

But once we start looking around for wedding bands, all we find are expensive, boring, overly-decadent gold and diamond style rings…

There's just too much online to know where to start! -Sara

I applaud your decision to go the non-diamond, inexpensive route for your wedding rings!

Diamonds are grossly overpriced, and of course there's that whole blood diamond thing, so you're so much better off going for either a different stone or no stone at all.

First things first: are you SURE there aren't any custom jewelry makers in your neck of the woods?

There's nothing more awesome than designing your own bands, and if you find a good jewelry maker they can usually work within your budget.

Plus, it's cool to support a local artisan.

That said, if there really aren't any around, you're right: there are TONS of online options. We feature tons of our favorites in the our Vendor Guide!

Here's a first tip: Don't look for “wedding rings” — they always cost more! There's this strange phenomenon of somehow if it has to do with a wedding it costs twice as much. Seriously. This isn't just for rings, it's for dresses, flowers, suits, chair rentals, everything. It's a total racket.

So when shopping online for rings, don't search for “wedding bands.” Just look for rings that you like.

Let's start with non-traditional wedding rings that are a bit gothic minded…

‘Til death do we part can be a more literal vision for your wedding ring. We've got coffin-shaped stones, skull-minded rings, and more things!

Halloween engagement rings
10k White Gold Natural Coffin Cut Ring – Choose your stone from Sapphire Design Studio

 

Halloween engagement rings
Skull Engagement Ring from Pmdatelier
Halloween engagement rings
Bone Ring from Pmdatelier

 

Gothic ring
The “Lora” ring from Iz&Co

 

 

 

Halloween engagement rings
Skull Engagement Ring from KIPKALINKA

 

Next, how about some geometric wedding rings?

We've seen some amazing hexagonal diamonds and kite-shaped gemstones, all with intricate and bold angular settings and dramatic shapes. From Bauhaus-inspired to Art Deco to the Mines of Moria, these geometric-inspired rings are ready to change the way you look at nontraditional wedding rings…

Angling for the most stunning geometric engagement rings we could find
Natural Rose Cut Diamond Set from MinimalVS

 

 

 

 

Angling for the most stunning geometric wedding rings we could find
Geometric Diamond Ring Set from doozie jewelry

 

Angling for the most stunning geometric wedding rings we could find
Grey Geometric Rose Cut Diamond + Pavé Cluster Engagement Ring from Mineralogy Design

 

 

 

Angling for the most stunning geometric wedding rings we could find
Kite Diamond Ring from MinimalVS

 

Angling for the most stunning geometric wedding rings we could find
Baguette Engagement Ring from artemer
opal pear shaped unique engagement ring on offbeat bride alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Here's a review of this unique engagement ring from HelloRing: “Eeee!! I seriously can't say enough good things about my ring!! I literally love it so much. It is what I've always dreamed of being on my wedding ring finger from the love of my life. And seriously, it does look way more amazing in person! The way the light shines and brings out the colors in the opal and the way the moissanite shines is just so gorgeous. I fool people all the time now and get told “That must have cost a pretty penny” because of how exquisite it looks, but little do they know this was more affordable than the basic, boring diamond rings I was looking at in the middle of the mall! I'm just so so pleased.”
his and his custom wedding rings on offbeat bride alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
These his & his wedding bands can be customized with a personalized inscription.
mens rose gold moon phase engagement ring alternative wedding ideas from Offbeat Wed (formerly Offbeat Bride)
Freaking out over this rose gold moon phases men's wedding band from SwankMetalsmithing
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Legend of Zelda men's wedding band
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Dragonscale ring

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