Daring shoes for daring grooms

It's been too long since I dedicated a shoe post to my beloved offbeat grooms. So grab your favorite dapper-dresser and let's get looking…


I'm more than a bride-to-be

I'm excited to get married and I'm excited to throw a big party. That being said, I'm more than just a bride-to-be. I am not the first, nor shall I be the last, to feel frustrated about gendered bias. So what can I do? How can I battle these questions and expectations? This is my plan.


Is it possible to have a feminist wedding?

I have a Masters in Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies. In other words, I’m a professional feminist. I had been with my partner for ten years when he proposed, and while it somehow came as a shock, there was no doubt in my mind that I absolutely wanted to marry him. Like any crafty member of my generation would, I desperately started googling “feminist wedding,” a fruitless endeavor. So what was going on? My entire identity had been built around feminism, so why was it that I was contradicting my own beliefs?