What can you do to relax and enjoy the night before your wedding?

Can we talk about the night before your wedding? I rented a hotel room for me, my mom, and my maid of honor. I think it would be nice to go out for dinner, and maybe catch a drink in town. I don't want to do anything too crazy the night before but I want to honor the night somehow. I'm at a total loss. What would YOU do? Or, what DID you do?


Major milestones in marriage equality happened and we're PSYCHED!

A few news-worthy things happened this morning, and two of them concern marriage, and are major milestones in the LGBT rights movement and marriage equality. Now, we don't have aaaaall the details yet, but we do know that the Defense of Marriage Act was overturned which, among other things, allows same-sex partners to receive some federal benefits and opens the door to making more and more related changes in making marriage equality universal.


Not every wedding choice has to "mean something"

I see this attitude a lot, about weddings, where everything is "supposed to mean something." Before we got engaged, I had this grand notion that every little choice that we made about our wedding was going to be somehow representative of us. Now I can't imagine doing that without going crazy from the stress.