This stunning and elegant goth wedding in a cave will charm all black hearts #Real Weddings: Global#australia#bearded groom#black dress#cave#goth#heavy metal wedding#no wedding party#plus size#red hair February 9 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride Photos by: IZO Photography Photos by IZO Photography The Offbeat Bride: Tash, Land sales agent (of body love fame!) Her offbeat partner: Jay, Pastry Chef/Patisserie owner Date and location of wedding: Lakeside & Cabaret Cave, Yanchep National Park, Yanchep, Western Australia — November 14, 2015 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We had an elegant goth wedding with a vintage vampire queen feel… IN A CAVE! There was no way that we were to have a white, princess-y, cookie-cutter wedding; it would be so uncomfortable as it's just not us at all. I remember, after getting engaged, visiting a bridal expo and oh boy did I feel out-of-place! Everything was the same thing in my eyes. From that moment on I knew that I had to source everything myself. For the colour theme, think generous servings of black, lashings of burgundy/red, and a pinch of white here and there for contrast. The decor consisted of lots of red roses, black and white stripes, damask print, and black lace. Here are some highlights: personalized odds and ends (cufflinks, toasting glasses, wishing well chest), my custom-made black wedding dress and veil, amazing burlesque, DIY centrepieces, a coffin ring box, and bleeding candles. Tell us about the ceremony: Tall vases with red roses lined the black and white striped aisle runner, leading down to the beautiful willow trees beside the lake at Yanchep National Park. We decided against having a wedding party — we wanted everyone attending to full enjoy themselves with no responsibilities and the focus to be on us, with only my son by our sides. With no bridesmaids, I walked alone, meeting both of my parents halfway. We included a sand ceremony to tie my son into the ceremony, blending us as one like the sands combined. It all sounded beautiful, but in reality it was hilarious as the sand spilled everywhere and we all lost it laughing. Being the metalheads we are, we had to incorporate some sort of metal into the music, even if it was on the softer scale for us. We managed to sneak in some Metallica, and Bullet for my Valentine, and the guests were none the wiser. Tell us about your reception: The reception was in a cave and it was incredible! I was so glad to be able to access the cave the day before and set everything up the way I envisioned it so I wasn't stressing about it on the day. Another highlight were the incredible thrones we hired to sit on. We caught quite a few of our guests sitting on them throughout the night and some even taking selfies on them. We entered to Metallica's "For Whom the Bell Tolls," and cut the cake to Marilyn Manson's "Sweet Dreams." We didn't do bonbonnieres/favors as such, instead we put together a candy bar ourselves and decorated black Chinese noodle boxes as name place cards on the tables. Our guests also had an amazing (and hilarious) time with the open photo booth we hired through our photographer. We added Halloween masks to the prop table and brought our own black damask print curtain for the backdrop. There were 440 photos alone from the photo booth. What was your most important lesson learned? Don't be afraid to DIY. I sourced most things on the internet (Etsy, I love you!) and if I couldn't find it, I made it. Because I had no bridesmaids, I didn't have help at the ready as most brides might. Still, it wasn't as hard as I'd heard. I did have some help from a few family and friends, which was so helpful. Vendors Photographer & Photobooth: IZO Photography Dress & Veil: Theressa Designs Venue: Yanchep National Park Groom's suit: Herringbone Groom's Tailor: Anthony Van Pham Perth tailor, clothing & bridal alterations Aisle runner hire: Flowers in Love Throne hire: Burlesque French Furniture Bouquet: Bride in Bloom Guestbook chest: Trusted Invitations: Anista Designs Wedding singer/DJ: The Dinner Singer Cake: Patisserie La Vespa I should probably also add my MUA: Wanderluxe Studio And hair: Hair by Ivy Now head over to Offbeat Home to get an amazing dose of body positivity, written by the bride! Get your daily dose of Offbeat AWESOME Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS News flash: Being a woman doesn't mean I know how to plan weddings NEXT OPEN THREAD: do I need bridesmaids and groomsmen, or can we just have shared attendants? Show/Hide comments [ 8 ] Your wedding cake is so beautiful. And gothic. And beautiful. And gothic. It's amazing! 2 agree Reply The picture of you in front of the logs and greenery is STUNNING. And your dress suits you perfectly. Congrats! 1 agrees Reply I am absolutely in love with this wedding! That black dress with the white veil – swoon! its so beautiful – you did an amazing job with everything! I am also curious as to why you stood on opposite sides than normal during the ceremony – was it just to buck tradition or did it have a special meaning… Im dying to know… 🙂 1 agrees Reply Give me a moment to pick my jaw up off the floor. Every detail is stunning! 3 agree Reply I LOVE THIS COUPLE! What a gorgeous and unique wedding. Beautiful. Reply I love anything involving caves. And the cake topper is wicked awesome : ) Reply Oh my God that CAKE!!! Perfection!!! Reply Absolutely dazzling!!! Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Participate in this conversation via emailGet only replies to your comment, the best of the rest, as well as a daily recap of all comments on this post. No more than a few emails daily, which you can reply to/unsubscribe from directly from your inbox. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.