Alissa & Amanda's "Love Bus" wedding adventure #Real Weddings: Northeast US#bride in pants#brunch wedding#connecticut#couples of color#lesbian weddings#red shoes#short hair#tea length dresses#unitarian#washington-dc#winter April 9 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride The offbeat bride: Alissa, Program Manager at a nonprofit Her offbeat partner: Amanda, Pediatric Physical Therapist Location & date of wedding:Unitarian Universalisty Society, Market Restaurant in Stamford, CT and Hotel Palomar in Washington, DC — December 30, 2009 What made our wedding offbeat: Since we could not get married in Washington D.C., we charted two buses and took all of our family and friends to Stamford, Connecticut. We called them the Love Bus. We arrived in Stamford on a Tuesday and had the most amazing ceremony on Wednesday. It was heartfelt and so emotional. One of our good friends wrote an original song for our wedding. After the ceremony we had an amazing brunch which included bottomless mimosas. After brunch we got back on the bus and headed back to Washington D.C. We had a dance party that night at the Hotel Palomar. 140 of our friends and family danced the night away in celebration. We included the Electric Slide, of course. Our biggest challenge: Our biggest challenge was coordinating an out of state wedding that included buses, mugs, and a lot of logistics. We worked together and reminded our friends that this was an unusual wedding that would require a lot of patience and teamwork. We recruited our friends to help us. We had Love Bus Captains and a Master of Ceremonies who kept everyone in line. Bottomless mimosas for the after wedding brunch. Yummy! My favorite moment: When Amanda was walking down the aisle, I (Alissa) pulled out a camera and took her picture. No one knew about my plan. But I wanted to capture her through my eyes, not everyone elses. Everyone laughed and it really set the tone for the rest of the day. Guests on the Love Bus My advice for offbeat brides: Stay calm. Make sure you agree on a vision and theme and then stick to it. You can't have everything you want so be willing to compromise. No matter what happens it will be the most amazing day of your life. Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS What was the hardest thing about writing a book? NEXT Let's oggle this dapper groom in a kilt Show/Hide comments [ 10 ] Can I just say how awesome it is that you have such a happy, wonderful group of guests at what was obviously a beautful, heartfelt ceremony? That you shared so many pictures of loved ones really shows what a super cool group of family and friends you must have, too. Congratulations and kudos all around. Reply Also, OMG, red wedding shoes, so pretty. Reply oh my gosh looking at those photos of waffles just made me extremely hungry. 🙂 Reply AMAZING! I love the buses, and the joy, and the endless mimosas and the dance party! So I basically LOVE it all! 🙂 Reply thank you all for all the support!!! more mandolisa porn, including photobooth: http://www.facebook.com/photos.php?id=112557052089558 Reply Congratulations! I am very delighted with Alissa's choice to take Amanda's picture at the aisle. So charming and sweet. Reply Wow! I remember meeting you two at the Unitarian Universalist Society in Stamford!! I'm so glad that you had a great time. I'm obsessed with aisle runners (this week) for my wedding. What fabric did you use? Any problems tripping over it? Reply We ordered ours through Aisles with Style online, but we donated ours to the UUSIS, so if you like the red, you could use the same one. I didn't have any problems with tripping, and I am pretty clumsy and not used to wearing heels, so you should be okay. 🙂 Reply Gasp! Red is my color! Free! Swooon Reply Mmmm…bottomless mimosas!!! Congrats! Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. If you want to promote your stuff on Offbeat Bride, join us as an advertiser instead.