Jenna & Billy's band geeks and Harry Potter bookish wedding #Real Weddings: Southern US#arkansas#christian#DIY#doctor who#economical wedding#fall weddings#harry potter#music#non-floral bouquet#overcoming adversity#sand ceremony#short hair#small wedding#taller bride#tattooed bride April 25 | Offbeat Editors offbeatbride Our reader survey told us that half of you identify as Academia Nerds, so a theme week was in order. This Bookish theme week is for the academics, the bookworms, and the card-carrying library buffs! Photos by Brandon Jennings The offbeat bride: Jenna, Color Guard Instructor (and Tribe member) Her offbeat partner: Billy, Band Director Date and location of wedding: University of Arkansas Old Main Lawn, Fayetteville, AR — June 25, 2011 Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We had a very small wedding: immediate family and close friends only. Billy and I are both really shy, so we didn't like the idea of being in front of a huge crowd. We also liked the intimacy a small wedding provides. Since we had a very short engagement and were paying ourselves with a teacher's salary, we also had a very tight budget ($2500). To save money, I DIYed everything I could. My favorite thing I made was my sheet music bouquet (featured here!). It took FOREVER, but it was definitely worth it. I loved how DIY enabled me to incorporate the things that Billy and I love into the decor. My husband teaches high school music and I teach Color Guard with him and for another school. It was very important for both of us to have music be a dominant element in the wedding. I bought a bunch of vintage sheet music and put it everywhere. To help keep costs down (and because I loved the look) we did two cupcake tiers. I decoupaged one with sheet music and the other with pages from Harry Potter, and our moms baked the cupcakes. We topped the Harry Potter tier with Harry Potter Legos that Billy and his best man put together, and topped the cupcakes with Harry Potter crest rings. Harry Potter book pages! We didn't have any live flowers/plants because we couldn't afford a florist and I really liked the look of paper and ribbon flowers. For the bridesmaids bouquets, the boutonnieres, and the cake topper, I make flowers out of damask ribbon. For the centerpieces, I made black feather pomanders on a vase with red LED lights. Tell us about the ceremony: Our ceremony was on the campus of the college that we both attended. We both love the campus and it has always had a very special meaning for us. We had a pretty traditional Christian ceremony. We are both really close to our moms, so we had them both do a reading. We also had a sand ceremony. My favorite thing about our ceremony was the music. We spent hours and hours picking out the perfect music, including a lot of classical piano music and music from the Amelie soundtrack. Our biggest challenge: About four months before the wedding, my fiance had a major stroke. He had been having some medical issues for the past couple of years, but the doctors couldn't figure out what it was. For the first couple of days, he couldn't speak at all or move his right side. He spent the next month in the hospital and the month after that in rehab. We had no idea what his recovery would be. I didn't know if we would even be able to have a wedding. Our goal was to be able to dance at the reception, and he wanted to be able to stand in the ceremony without his cane. He worked really hard and progressed very quickly. He was able to walk longer and longer distances and soon he didn't need his cane at all. Things were going well and we were pushing to get everything finished in time. About two months before the wedding, we got a call in the middle of the night. Billy's brother's fiance had been killed by a drunk driver. They were going to get married in November and had been together for eight years. Billy's brother was his best man. We asked him if he wanted us to postpone the ceremony, but he said no. It was very difficult to get married without her being there. My favorite moment: I really enjoyed taking pictures before the wedding. It allowed Billy and me to get to spend some time together and relax (and try not to be so nervous) before the wedding. I also really enjoyed our reception. It was so intimate, and I had such a great time with our family and best friends. We are both really busy, so it was great to be able to spend that time and share that special moment with the people who mean so much to us, but that we don't get to see often enough. My funniest moment: I wore a short birdcage veil, and when Billy was going to kiss me at the end of the ceremony, I forgot I was wearing it. I went in to kiss him and he tried to push it back. It was pretty awkward, but we both laughed. It was actually pretty perfect and just like us. One of our guests made fun of me by yelling out my nickname, Denna. This was the kind of thing I was worried about happening because I hate being the center of attention (and I tend to worry about everything), but it really was a special moment, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Was there anything you were sure was going to be a total disaster that unexpectedly turned out great? I bought this great black and ivory damask aisle runner. I spent over half of the ceremony decorations budget on it. On the day of the wedding it was super crazy windy and we couldn't use it. I was really upset and worried that the decorations wouldn't be enough. Luckily the venue was nice enough that we didn't need it. In fact, the aisle runner would have covered up the sidewalk that has all of the names of the graduates for the first years the college was opened. My advice for Offbeat Brides: Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself when someone doesn't do what they agreed to do. I had some issues with one of our vendors not keeping their promises, and I wanted to confront them and have them make it right. I didn't, and I really regret it. Care to share a few vendor/shopping links? Photography: Brandon Jennings Table rounds and groom's tie: Etsy seller FantasyVintageBridal Damask aisle runner: Etsy seller EverythingDamask Bride's dress and veil: David's Bridal Enough talk — show me the wedding porn! Get your daily dose of Offbeat AWESOME Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Crazy impressive and often one-of-a-kind artistic wedding rings from Wexford Jewelers NEXT Finger food wedding menu Show/Hide comments [ 7 ] Hell yeah band geek wedding! I marched tuba at UMass and dabbled in a little bit of spring color guard, so this is just awesome. I dig the sheet music bouquet. Was the sheet music anything meaningful to you guys? Reply Thanks! When My fiance first heard that I was going to cut up sheet music, he was aghast. He said there was no way that he was going to let me do it because it was sacrilege. I bought a Wagner opera because it was inexpensive, there was a lot of it, and it looked pretty cool (it was 100 years old, so it was aged really nicely.) When I told him what the music was, he was all for it. He said Wagner deserved to be cut up. 9 agree Reply Beautiful wedding! I love your bouquet and the cupcake stand! I am sorry to hear about the family's loss shortly before your wedding, but I am glad your fiance seems to be on a solid recovery path. Good prayers and wishes for you both and your families. Reply Best wedding ever! 🙂 Love you, sister! Reply Fayetteville!!! My new husband teaches at the UofA and we had considered getting married on campus. In the end we fell in love with Lake Wedington and got married out there. Your wedding was beautiful and very person, best wishes for a happy future together. 1 agrees Reply the missing 1887! UA campus is SO beautiful. good choice! 😀 Reply Never cease to be amazed by the ingenuity and creativity of couples on this site … awesome! Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Participate in this conversation via emailGet only replies to your comment, the best of the rest, as well as a daily recap of all comments on this post. 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