Find the perfect anniversary gift for you and your partner with Gemvara #Sponsors: Jewelry#gifts#jewelry#married life#necklace#ring September 7 | Megan Finley meganfinley This business paid a fee to be listed on Offbeat Bride because they feel their products and services are a great fit with offbeat philosophies… and we agree. Learn more about our ads. Hey you: Married readers! Yeah, we know you're there and we love that you keep reading Offbeat Bride even after your wedding. Do you sometimes feel sad because our vendors aren't really relevent to your needs anymore? (And, um, by the way: are you reading Offbeat Home?) Our long-time sponsor Gemvara still has y'all in mind. Did you know that they have a whole anniversary gift section? They even have an easy guide to make gift buying easy if you just follow the anniversary gemstone list. I'm about to do your anniversary gift shopping for the next few years right now. If your lady or gentleman partner loves jewelry, we've got some great options for them. Alternately, if you're the more heteronormative type, you might want to bring your guy over to scroll through this post, and maybe throw in a couple of "hint hints." 1st anniversary — Gold Let's start with your first wedding anniversary. Screw paper — anniversary numero uno is the gold anniversary. I'm thinking that the Large Skylight Disc Gem Pendant is a great gift to get creative with. You could even match the tiny gemstone to a special wedding color, or your partners favorite color. Once you get your hands on it, you could get the gold disc engraved with something sweet — your new initials, a little love note, the Galactic Empire logo, you know, something special. Bad ass, right? Want me to do more personal anniversary shopping for ya? Good! Because this is fun. Check these ideas for the next 10 years… 3rd anniversary — Pearl The third anniversary is the pearl anniversary. Did you know that pearls come in more colors than just… well… pearl white? Check out these rad lavender pearl earrings! What about black pearls for your goth princess? Or the classic white pearls for your pin-up chick? Gemvara has a lot of creative pearl jewelry. 5th anniversary — Sapphire Okay, I LOVE the Birds of a Feather ring. That "birds of a feather flock together" symbolism accented with a little sapphire accent stone makes it the perfect fifth anniversary gift. Hell, I say get TWO of them and have matching love bird rings. Of course, if birds aren't your thang, anything in their sapphire department would make you look like the master of gift-giving. 7th anniversary — Onyx I had SO much trouble picking out the perfect piece of onyx jewelry, because seriously, I loved EVERYTHING I saw. I totally have a thing for onyx. So, inspired by the bird ring that had double meaning because of the stone and the design, I went with the Infinity Knot Pendant. Because infinity is how much you love each other, right? And, speaking from someone who's been with her partner for seven years, seven years can sometimes feel like infinity! How have I never not known that guy? Anyway, I digress. This necklace is awesome, you are welcome. 10th – Diamond First of all, congrats on making it 10 years! Now, perhaps you want to go celebrate with some bling. What about upgrading or adding to your wedding ring finger? I LOVE stackable bands, like this sizable diamond beauty. If that's too much bling, no worries: Gemvara has the most incredible selection of diamond jewelry that'll fit ANY budget and any style. And with this special offer, maybe you might be able to stretch your budget a bit farther… OFFBEAT DISCOUNT: Through their Facebook page, Gemvara is offering $75 off your jewelry purchase. The discount will be applied at checkout, and is available to redeem through September 12, 2012. Details here. More anniversary stones can be found here, and more jewelry options and gift ideas await you when you head over to Gemvara.com! Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo Megan Finley Megan Finley is the Associate Publisher and Editorial Overlord. When she's not slaving away for the Empire, she's sharing her dork side on her own blog. @meganfinley @meggyfin PREVIOUS Ruche's classy & cute vintage inspired shoes NEXT Sarah & Joe's church wedding with 1,000 cranes Toggle comments [ 5 ] Nice. But given this is Offbeat Bride, any chance we could get a post about more offbeat or diy options for anniversary gifts? Maybe new options for or ways to tweak the traditional gifts? Ex: year 3 is leather, how bout a leather kindle case? You know, something that might help out us ladies shopping for our men, or men shopping for men, or ladies shopping for their butch wives? It's much harder to come up with creative ideas that feel personal for the in between years or the non-jewelry wear-er. 2 agree Reply We can absolutely do that. Do note, however, that this is a post featuring a sponsoring jewelry website… so it's probably going to be about jewelry. 3 agree Reply @MC or trans guys shopping for their femme wives :-p If year 1 is paper, I would probably make a photo album or get her concert tickets…which are printed on paper…or something papery or plant a tree and say "y'know, this is paper inutero" or something but why would I give her yellow gold when her wedding & engagement ring are white gold? I would DEFINITELY get her pearls though. They're cute & vintage and something she'd actually wear. Year 2 is cotton this is great could be clothes, could be new sheets, could be a teddy bear… If third year is leather I'm holding out for a pair of docs. 1 agrees Reply Oooh. I had been planning all along on just a simple band for my wedding ring but that birds of a feather design makes me reconsider my opinions. 1 agrees Reply I just found the sweetest,simplest little wedding band on here…..for $35 (with the discount). Pretty freaking awesome deal! Thanks! 0 agree Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked * Comment Notify me of follow-up comments by email. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. Make sure you're familiar with our no-drama comment policy. Biz owners & wedding bloggers Please just use your real name in your comment, not your business name or blog title. Our comments are not the place to pimp your website. 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