Help you down the aisle I must: The day Yoda empowered a flower girl with autism
The wedding was held in a small country church. The bride was resplendent in a blue 1940s gown, and her three daughters were flower girls in floral circlets and big pretty dresses and — what the wha — is that Yoda over on the left there, photobombing that lovely family photo?
Offbeat Bride reader, Ms Tara, recently went to a friend's wedding and noticed that one of the flower girls had a strange little green Jedi friend escort her down the aisle, in the form of an awesome backpack. Unable to resist asking how Yoda crashed the wedding, Ms Tara found out during the reception:
T, the flower girl, had spent the morning hiding under the bed. She has autism, and the prospect of an event with all those people was pretty daunting. T's aunty finally coaxed her out from under the bed with the promise of a Yoda backpack. Her aunt took her to the toy shop, and from that moment on Yoda sat on her shoulder and she seemed to feel safe with him there.When it came time to put on the dress and head to the church T flat refused to go without Yoda on her shoulder. Her mother, the bride, said to her family "If Yoda helps T get to the church and walk down that aisle with all those people watching, then Yoda is coming!"
And the result was one of the best images of a flower girl that has EVER been taken in the history of weddings:

Screenshot courtesy of 20th Century Fox.
Oh wait, sorry… this:

Photo by Kristy Angove
It's no battle training on Dagobah, but weddings can (sometimes) be just as stressful and overwhelming. So cheers to the bride for letting Yoda coach this young padawan through her wedding duties!
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About Megan Finley
Megan Finley is the Managing Editor for Offbeat Bride and the Associate Publisher for the Offbeat Empire. When she's not slaving away for the Empire, she's sharing her dork side on her own blog and on Twitter @meganfinley.








Kat said
Wow! The family picture is absolutely breathtaking, and the story behind it…just wow! One of my favorite wedding stories for sure!
Jess said
I just teared up.
Jen said
Seriously went teary-eyed. Love this.
J XD said
Incredibley sweet and what an amazing wedding that must have been!
I would love to see more of this beautiful family at what must have been an awesome event. lovely lovely photo!
Catherine said
Beautiful. What a warm and loving family.
Lis said
I saw this on the tribe and have been wanting to share this with my friends, and now I can:)
Adhara said
omg. omg. I just got choked up. that last pic is just Beautiful.
stephanie said
Beautiful.
Mich OBT Mod said
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE this
pandac said
What a heartwarming story… with all the chaos that is a wedding it is the most simple things that make you stop and consider the big picture. Someday many years from now this family will be able to look back at pictures that include this beautiful little girl who found the courage with a little help from Auntie and Yoda. Thanks for sharing this!
Megan said
Simply adorable! This is such a sweet wedding memory! I can't help but think of all of the little flower girls and ring bearers who would probably have an easier time if they could bring their own special "friend" along.
Nikki said
I love this entire story. Imagine some ten or fifteen years from now when her daughter is getting married and Ms Tara is sharing these photos of her to her groom (or bride) and their family.
JunipurZombie said
OMG YODA!!! I'm in love
SadieMae said
I love it! Our little son will be almost 2 at our wedding next year. His "special friend" is a little monkey comforter that goes to bed with him, which we are going to have on hand for emergencies on the day. This photo made be feel all warm and fuzzy : )
Gorgeous little girls and gorgeous wedding.
Sylvia said
I love the CRAP out of this! As someone whose passion it is to work with children with disabilities and/or special needs, it makes me SO happy to see parents who have their priorities straightened out! What's important is her ability to participate in the day with as little stress and anxiety as possible – even if Yoda gatecrashes!!
LOVE it!
Deanna said
what a beautiful family, and a wonderful story! i teared up a bit.
Dear said
Aww! She's a cutie-pie. The whole family just looks so warm and beautiful, and the story made me smile. A stuffed animal(or backpack) can be a special friend and I'm happy she got to walk down the aisle with him.
What a cool mom!
Anna said
Cutest. Story. Ever.
Chrissie said
Gorgeous! What a beautiful family
Audrey said
The Luke Skywalker picture cracked me up! And this story is beautiful.
Rozi said
Fab! My daughter has autism, so we were thinking of ways to help Beanie make her way down the aisle as a flower dudette. Probably let her carry a Totoro or a Ponyo (she's a ghibli fan! I've raised her well…)
sassy said
PONYO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ChatNoir said
Totally proud of all the new little Ghibli fans. They'll grow up to be adults with good taste.
sassy said
every time i read this story it touches my heart–but the last picture is absolutely beautiful <3
pennypoppycakes said
Well there goes my make up!
jennie said
awwww that is a brilliant story!
Raz said
I can't wait for twenty or so years to go by to read the story about Yoda at her wedding. Sweet story.