Nadine & Alex's self-made, low-budget, costume, "freakwedding"

Real Weddings: Global By on January 11, 2010 27

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The offbeat bride: Nadine, Tracer

Her offbeat partner: Alex, Industrial Mechanic

Location & date of wedding: Germany, Black forrest, Rottweil, City Hall of Rottweil — 11.12.2009 & 12.12.2009

What made our wedding offbeat: The first thing is that we are offbeat ourselves. We are heavily tattooed on the complete body. When Alex asked me to become his wife we planned to get married five month later. As we both have no money on our site, we decided to create a low-budget wedding. The complete wedding with 150 guests costs under 4000 €.

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Our wedding was complete done by us. Every single detail was planned and tinkered by me. I looked for bargains every day, bought many things used, and spent all my time for every detail for this wedding.

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The bride's gorgeous custom ear plugs.

Second my dress is made by my Mom, she sewed it with the idea of the Grace Kelly dress. And as i saw it — i loved it.

Third is that we are decided to marry in winter. I love snow and the winter, and its kind of borring to marry in the loved month May and April. So we choose December.

The last big offbeat thing is that we ask friends to do special things like photos, play music, help decorate the location, and cook salad or cake for the buffet. Alex's best men is a great hobby photographer and he took all these great pictures. Because Alex played in a Metalcore band for three years, we ask the guitarist of the band to play some nice music for us. And all our friends and family helped to decorate the location and helped to clean it after the big party.

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Our biggest challenge: Our biggest challenge was the money.

The rings.

The rings.

Alex is in his apprenticeship to become a Industrial Mechanic and I have been workless for three months.

Everybody told us it couldn't be a great wedding when you didn't have a carriage and a princess dress, and that costs lot's of money. So our biggest challenge was to show everybody what you can do with less money. And in the end it was perfect.

But the biggest challenge was to abide us. Many people told us we have to do it this way or that way. And in the end it was a little fight to do everything like we wanted it.

The Carnevalkings

Of course we feasted with different kinds of people — old and young, freaks and fuddy-duddies. So the party had to be cool for everyone, so we tried to embrace everyone. And the greatest surprise was that everybody feasted together — a big party the whole night.

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I love this picture of the groom and his boys.

My favorite moment: My favorite moment was when Alex gave me his fealty promise. I looked in his eyes and tears roll around his face. That was the first moment I realized what this wedding meant to him. I think that was the most beautiful feeling I ever had in this moment.

Wedding-High-Five

My offbeat advice: Do your wedding like you want it. Let everybody know you want to do it your way. Listen to your heart and realize the reason for the wedding. Be sure that you both wanted this wedding with every single heartbeat of your body. Than everything will be great.

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  • OMG your plugs are awwwwwwwesome!!

    VA:F [1.9.13_1145]

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  • Those are seriously beautiful ear plugs, so natural and serene. Perfect!
    I love your attitude and personal is best. Money definitely doesn't make a wedding "better" and now you have all the credit :)

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  • looks like it was fun to photograph

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  • I lurve that you guys got ring tattoos! It looks like you two had a beautiful and wonderful day! Congratulations!

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  • looks like you all had a lot of fun;o) Glad you could do so much on a small budget! And also I LOVE the tattoos and piercings that everyone sports!

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  • I agree, those earplugs even make prissy-miss me jealous. This wedding is beautiful. As a winter bride myself I know balancing the dress style with practical concerns (like not having chattering teeth during my outdoor ceremony) can be tough but I think Nadine and her bridesmaids have managed it perfectly!

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  • I'm a long time customer of One Tribe Organics and swear by them… congrats y'all!

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  • Hi Nadine and Alex, first of all: congratulations!! I'm impressed by your beautiful wedding and I am planning to approach my wedding in a similar way. Could you please tell something more about the budget? How much you spend on the location, the buffet, etc. ? Thank you

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  • Hurrah for wedding dresses with sleeves! Lovely!

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  • Hi,
    sure I will tell you about the facts :)

    The material for the dress: 150€ (sewed by my mom)
    The bride jacket: 15 € (sewed by my mom)
    The material for the bridemaids: 25 € per dress (but they payed it themselves, and my mom sewed it)
    The tailcoat 250 €
    The veil used from ebay: 5 €
    The material for the russian veil from ebay.uk: 7 €
    The hair barrette used from ebay: 8 €
    Shoes: 18€ (local affair of our city)

    The make-up: 48 € (Vigasit in our town)
    The Hair job: 30 € (a friend of my aunt)
    The flowers (bouquet, 5 brightmaids, 1rose best man, 4 roses for our parents, alex rose): 120€

    The Invation and thank-you-cards : 60 € (designed by Alex, printed by diedruckerei.de)
    The Location: 450 €
    The complete deco from IKEA and ebay (candles, vases, paper for menue cards etc.): 100€
    The roses for the deco from jollyflowers: 80€ for 70 roses

    The Catering (Buffet): per Person 12,35 € = 1800 € (big lunch, dessert, and big snack-buffet in the night)
    The Drinks we brought ourselve to the Location: 450 €
    The wedding cake: 120€ (made by a private woman)

    hope that helped you a bit

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  • The bridesmaid dresses are GORGEOUS! lovely wedding!

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  • I am madly in love with the dress! I sew-no where near as well as your mom I'm sure. Did she use a pattern and if so, what is the make and number? Still holding out for a pink dress so I'll probably be making it myself.

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  • Oh I love the bridesmaids dresses! They're beautiful.

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  • Wow! Her dress is beautiful and I adore the bridesmaids dress! Gorgeous!!!

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  • the bide jacket is super cute!!

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  • little swastika? Does no one else find this incredibly offensive? REALLY?

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    • Alex, as I noted last week, the swastika on little swastika's site is the Hindu form of the symbol with the dots. Certainly using a swastika is provocative, but the symbol has a long history before the Nazi's co-opted it and from what I can tell, little swastika is referencing the much earlier symbol.

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      • His website is very informative and his personal biography extremely interesting to read. there is a real thoughtfullness behind his choices. On top of which he is an amazing artist. I would seriously consider planning a trip to Germany to get tattooed by him!

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  • Thanks for clarifying that again, Ariel. I just love all the originality and thoughtfulness that went into this wedding. You guys were so true to yourselves, and it's beautiful to see how your family and friends rallied around making this the wedding you envisioned. But my heart skipped a beat when I read "little swastika" too, so thanks!

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  • The pattern she used is from Vogue: 2979
    http://www.resew.de/product_info.php/info/p533_Vo…

    and this is the jacket:
    http://www.resew.de/product_info.php/info/p6539_N…

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    • I almost bought that pattern to make my dress! But it wouldn't be very practical for my summer wedding. :) Your mom did a great job, you look beautiful!

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  • loks really cool and different

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  • If you had not said this wedding was done on a tight budget I never would have guessed! it was beautiful and completely original. the wedding dress is amazing and you guys have fabulous style. congrats!

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  • What a beautiful wedding. (And on a side note I've been a huge fan of the tattoos done by Swastika Freakshop for years and it was a pleasant surprise to see a link to them here)

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  • Beautiful wedding!! I love the wedding gown style and it looks beautifully made as well. I also love the color purple you used in your wedding.The cake looks so yummy and made so nicely too. Great pictures they all came out Nicely… Congrats to the couple !!

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  • Gorgeous wedding! I can't believe you did all that on such a small budget — amazing!

    Also, the groomsman with the facial tattoos is HAWT. Can you introduce me? ;)

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  • beautiful, your day looks so perfect and you all look so happy :)

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