Isa & Clinton's easy-peasy, eco-friendly bush wedding #Real Weddings: Global#australia#colored crinoline#dog#eco-friendly#hat#outdoor#short hair#simple wedding#spring#succulents#tea length dress#wedding weekend November 2 | Offbeat Editors The Offbeat Bride: Isa, Museum Mistress (and OBT member "Isa") Her Offbeat Partner: Clinton, student and drummer extraordinaire Location & date of wedding: Mount Majura bushland, ACT, Australia — April 11, 2009 What made our wedding offbeat: Clinton and I decided to get married over the phone while I was in Tonga working as a volunteer, and I planned the whole thing from overseas. Perhaps the thing that made our wedding most unusual was how EASY everything was! It all just fell into place, with minimal stress and effort. We wrote the ceremony in one evening while I was home at Christmas, and composed our wedding ring haikus in under twenty minutes while driving one day! We didn't bother with minute details, but focused on creating a day we'd enjoy. Our wedding site was a clearing in the bush near our house, and my friend Janet played the flute. The centrepieces were succulents from our own collection, and I just ordered a posy from the local florist, without any specifications except for price ($50 AUD) and that they use native flowers. Local and green were important to us. With the restaurant we chose for the wedding dinner having an emphasis on locally sourced and organic produce, including using their own free-range eggs. We kept things low-impact by not having paper invitations (just the Wedsite), choosing clothes that would be worn again, and sourcing our rings from GreenKarat. We also bought carbon credits to cover the transport and accommodation of guests. After our Australian wedding we returned to Tonga together, and my colleagues there threw us a surprise Tongan wedding! So three weeks after our first wedding we got married again -– now THAT was pretty offbeat! Our biggest challenge: For the most part the whole thing was quite easy, and I enjoyed planning it immensely! Clinton and I discussed what we wanted when I returned to Australia for Christmas. I was then able to take care of most of the operational aspects from Tonga (thank you, Internet!), while Clinton dealt with anything on the ground in Canberra, like getting maps together etc. It really was that simple! Being in a place like Tonga, where material possessions are secondary to family and community, also helped me to keep things in perspective. I had three brief bridezilla moments; one was when my brother-in-law failed to RSVP; dealing with people's dietary requirements; and one of my friends asking if she could wear white. They were all STUPID things to get upset about, and luckily I was able to get a grip quickly each time. But it demonstrated to me how fixated we get on control as "brides." One post-wedding challenge has been dealing with our photographer, who is a start-up and offered to do the photos for free in exchange for using them in his portfolio. Though he was good to work with — very consultative, looking at websites of photography we liked to get an idea of what we were looking for -– it has been quite difficult to get the pics out of him, and even now after nearly six months he still hasn't delivered all of them. My favorite moment: I have several. The first was walking to the clearing with my Best Lady and the friend who was playing the flute. We were supposedly tying ribbons to trees to mark the path to the wedding site, which turned out to be ridiculous because I didn't buy enough ribbon and you could barely see the tiny scraps that ended up on the tree branches! Not that it mattered, because everybody was there in plenty of time to be escorted by the Best Lady and Best Man. But I had a fun morning, out walking with two of my closest friends, with lots of laughing and silliness. My cousin/ Best Lady gave the best wedding speech EVER — writing a story about us growing up, but as the characters of our childhood imaginary friends, who were two invisible cats named Sally and Blanche. I laughed so much, as it brought back so many funny memories, and was so thoughtfully done. We also had some trivia after dinner, which was a hit and brought out people's competitive side, including attempted sabotage and cheating galore! At the end of the night, after everyone else had climbed on the bus to head home, Clinton and I walked hand-in-hand down the empty, rain-soaked street to the B&B where we were staying, and it was beautiful -– still, with a moon shining down, and utterly peaceful. We both agreed that the day could not have gone any better, and we really couldn't have asked for more. My advice for other offbeat brides: I know this has been said before, but make sure you get breakfast/lunch on the day-of! My only freak-out was when I found myself getting lunch for everyone, while my Best Lady was off having her hair done! Quite funny in retrospect though! Labelled Special Dietary requirement cupcakes! One-on-one time with your partner is good. Check in with each other and laugh at the craziness of it all. We did the whole thing together, from waking up on the morning of Our Wedding Day, to walking to the B&B that night. If you can, arrange a breakfast/brunch for the next day, it means you don't have to say goodbye to your guests all that night. We spread our wedding out over a weekend, with a night at the pub the evening before –- this turned out to be a great way for people who didn't know each other to meet casually. We then followed up with a brunch the morning after the wedding, and it turned into a 4-hour-long farewell, which was lovely and relaxed for us. It doesn't have to be a huge affair, just a few bread-rolls and some fruit would be sufficient. Don't sweat the small stuff. The day will go so fast, and you may not even have time to notice the theme colours, the hand-made place-cards, or the individually plucked rose petal confetti! Care to share a few vendor/shopping links?: My Mum made my dress, and Clinton's Mum made my hat – she's a trained milliner! We used GreenKarat for our rings. Our restaurant was Grazings in Gundaroo — a great tip for any ACT brides out there! Their banquet menu was only $50 a head, and the food was DIVINE, the price included venue hire and set-up. Biome offers an eco-friendly registry, and services Australia-wide. Also there's the Oxfam unwrapped registry option. We used mywedding.com to host our free wedsite. Enough talk — show me the wedding porn!: Reporter Name * Reporter Email * Original text Enter the original text here. Edited text* Enter your suggested copyedit here. Notes You can add a note for the editor here. * Required information. Fix Typo PREVIOUS Colorful dresses from Wedding Dress Fantasy that will make you forget "ivory" ever existed NEXT Behind the scenes stuff Show/Hide comments [ 10 ] Since this was one of your freak-outs, I have to say that, as a person with special dietary requirements, it means so much that you went out of your way to feed my type at your wedding. I have been to several weddings where the couple took super efforts to ensure that every gluten-free, nut-allergic vegan was fed, and it is really touching. So, if you didn't get proper thanks, consider yourself heartily hugged and loudly "thank-you"ed! Reply Can i echo JessicaF here, as someone with dietery requirements, I have been to weddings where I have been unable to eat because the meals would kill me because it was deemed too difficult to cater to my fairly common food allergy. So 10 points and a huge hurrah for handling the situation! Oh, and I buy gifts from Biome all the time, love it, huge props for a Biome gift registry. Reply Wedding Haiku? Tell me more! Reply That dog is so cute Reply Actually, I am a Special Dietary Requirements person myself, so you can see why I said my freak-outs were really over dumb things! The actual hassle was more trying to co-ordinate a set menu that would accommodate everyone's needs. As it turns out the staff just took people's individual needs into account on the night and they ordered off the regular menu, which was absolutely super for everyone – if only they'd told me that's what they were going to do, i could have saved myself a fair bit of stress! Reply I, too, thought it was very considerate to acknowledge those with special needs in comestibles. And the organisation was obviously very good. However, I think the whole day was so enjoyable that the gods must have been smiling on the event. Obviously Clinton and Isa are very much in love and that shone through during the proceedings. There could have been disasters: it could have rained, hailed and thundered; the bus to the restaurant might have been late or not have turned up at all; the FOB or MOB could have carked it on the morning of the wedding. None of these happened so it was just meant to be. Oh, and the MC did a great job considering he'd just been operated on! Reply I'd also like to add a link to our wedding photographer's site as a Vendor for the Canberra/Capital region. http://www.peppertreephoto.com As I said in the Profile, he was great to work with, and has recently contacted me regarding our missing pics, hopefully we'll be getting the remaining few images soon. To be fair, he's working a full-time job at the same time as shooting weddings, and the pics speak for themselves. Reply It looks so cool, my partner and I are trying to organise a bush wedding in the Northern Territory (oz for those of you not in oz) and I am finding it very hard!!! I really want it to be eco freindly and local food (which there is not much of up here) I work for a kitchen garden foundation at primary school.. and honestly local is often tricky. There is so much bush, but a nice spot which won't be full of tourists is a tricky one. Love it how yours looks so fab.. Reply I love the wedding dress!! It looks so good on you too. Great head piece! COngrats to you!! Reply Haha even the dog is dressed up! I love it! Great photo deck! Amazing dress congrats Reply Join the conversation Cancel Reply Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked * Comment Notify me of follow-up comments by email. No-drama comment policy Part of what makes the Offbeat Empire different is our commitment to civil, constructive commenting. 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