Sheva & Jared's dark, elegant wedding with a twist of tacky Halloween fun

Offbeat Bride: Sheva, Hairstylist
Her Offbeat Partner: Jared, Cad specialist
Location & date of wedding: Castle on the Hudson, Tarrytown, NY — October 31st, 2008
What made our wedding offbeat: Jared and I hate the traditional, and dread going to weddings. We decided to throw a huge bash on our favorite holiday, Halloween.
To ensure that our guests would losen up and have fun we had everyone dress up in costume. Jared wore jeans and we all decided to wear chucks and be comfortable. We got to be ourselves and had a stress free fun day.

Biggest challenge: We are from Staten Island and we searched high and low for vendors to see our vision. We wanted a dark elegant event with a twist of tacky halloween fun. All we got was attitude as soon as I walked in and they saw my tattoos and I started talking about skulls and a lot of black.
It was not until we headed out to sleepy hollow did we find this stunning castle that loved Halloween weddings.
My favorite moment: Having the double doors open and seeing our friends and family in their costumes.
My advice for other offbeat brides: Don't fight with your fiance! Have fun with planning your wedding.
And don't settle, you CAN have the craziest, trashiest, most outrageous wedding you want, it's not illegal.
Care to share any vendors/links?:
- Dress: Fairy Goth Mother
- Groom's Jacket: findcoolclothes.com
- Chair covers: Daniel Florals in Westchester, NY
- Photographer: Frank Farina
Enough talk — show me the wedding porn!:
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Kate said
OMG- Awesome!!!!
Jazminealthia said
That dress is gorgeous! And the corset-lace-up chair covers to match? Fantastic!
Cheebs said
This is amazing…wish there was more info on vendors. But still gorgeous.
Pip said
Holy smokes I love her dress. AWESOME.
Angie said
This is my first comment here (besides, I believe, congratulating Ariel on her pregnancy), but I gotta say if I had my druthers, this is almost exactly the wedding I'd want. Congrats on the wedding, and I love your elegant goth style! Love that dress! Love the cake! LOVE!
Anette said
If you're going non-white – this is how you do it!
Sunny said
LUV LUV LUV IT!!!! The pics look amazing!!!! I loved how elegant it was. Congrats!
Emmy said
I'm guessing that's Fairy Goth Mother corset?
Leah! said
i have a feeling that it is!
fairygothmother.com is where i plan to get my dress, too! (but a different one)
sheva said
yep, i got the dress at fairygothmother.com it was suprisingly affordable
Tessa said
Where did you get that dress? It is amazing!
Emma said
Amazingly dramatic and elegant wedding! More photos please!
Renee said
Wow, you're pretty! And I've entertained the idea of wearing chucks to my wedding as well.
Also, it saddens me to know you received such attitude from vendors about your vision. Why are people SO stuck inside their vision of a poofy white wedding with doves, diamonds and french manicures? Ergh. How sterile. Give me something dark and romantic any day.
Congrats & here's to a long happy marriage
sheva said
Frank Farina was our photographer and we used Daniel florals for everything else. they are both located in westchester, NY. We interviewed a lot of people, and we loved their work the best.
Jen said
I think I might have a new girl-crush in Sheva – spectacular!
DeeJay said
What amazing photos!!
Just discovered your site today and really really like it. I'm haunting your archives now
Steff said
Is the groom wearing that fab skull-damask jacket from Pyramid Collection? Wow – I've never seen that on a person before.
http://www.pyramidcollection.com/itemdy00.asp?c=0…
Awesome wedding, and congrats!
ShoelaceGirl said
I almost peed out of delight from the chair covers. I have always thought they looked so ridiculous…until now.
nchanxetsy said
The bride is just gorgeous. Red dress + chucks = OMGBLISS!
GabHAri said
Oh my god what an absolutely gorgeous couple (and your dress is to DIE/DYE for!!) Your wedding looked like one HELLUVAN awesome party!!! Rock on, darlings!
Fiona said
That dress is absolutely gorgeous. I love it (and the shoes!)
Tarion Suicide said
I wish I had thought of that when I got engaged. How awesome! Thats a wedding no one will forget!
GoreJess said
I'm getting married this Halloween! Where did you rent those corset chair covers???? Absolutely Beautiful!
sheva said
Daniel Florals in westchester. He was amazing he listened to my insane ramblings and turned the room into a dream.
Serena said
That looks stunning! Congrats!
sheva said
The Jacket was from http://www.findcoolclothes.com/03982.html
Stephanie@Geezees said
wow! her dress is awesome! I LOVE IT!
autumn said
sooo pretty! i love the dress. And the shoes are so pretty bc they wouldn't normally go with a dress they look awesome.
Kell (Boo on OBT) said
Congratulations guys! We share the same wedding date 31/10/08.
I love your dress so much! I'm off to look at all the other pics now.