Shrie & Brett's Vintage 50's Mexican Fiesta Hitchin'!

April 28 |

And in case you missed my two part series, here 'tis! "Planning A Wedding from Afar Part I and Part II". Tips and tricks galore.. now dive into our wedding!

The offbeat bride: Shrie, Sign Designer/Music Writer

Her offbeat partner: Brett, Senior System Engineer

Location & date of wedding: YWCA in downtown Fort Worth, TX on Friday March 13th, 2009

What made our wedding offbeat: I didn't wear a white dress… or a wedding dress! We had a close female friend become ordained to marry us (much to the chagrin of my family) and our dog was our ring bearer!

The absence of several small things, of which I felt were unneeded, made our wedding a bit more offbeat than most. For example, we didn't have assigned seating and we didn't toss the bouquet or do the garter thing.

Oddly enough, when everything was said and done, our wedding turned out to be MORE traditional than I would have expected — in part due to some surprising traditional views regarding wedding customs.

Our favors were little baskets filled with jars of homemade and homegrown jalapeno jelly (thanks Mamma Fran and Daddy Tex!) from my grandparents, and packets of wildflower seeds indigenous to Texas. I made the labels for the jellies and my mom helped me tie all the bows on the baskets.

I made crossword puzzles for the guests, with the help of my maid of honor Jamie, with little tidbits about us. I made small freestanding signs for the guestbook and scrapbook tables (I work at a sign shop!). We made a jillion Martha pompoms for decoration and hung them with papel picado banners.

The centerpieces included glass vases holding crepe paper flowers we made as well as little record bowls (hubs made!) filled with chips for snackin'. We're big indie music fans and wanted to incorporate our audiophile ways somehow.

The morning of our wedding we bought some lovely in season flowers at the phenomenal Central Market, some ribbon and double-sided tape for the bouquets and boutonnière. My lovely bridesmaids helped me arrange and wrap the bouquets… they turned out really pretty and simple. AND it was only $45 for three bouquets and three boutonnière!

We also had a faux photobooth of sorts set up on the stage in our reception ballroom. My awesome friend Kimber, of Vanity Stand, took photos and the guests had a complete blast with the props and were silly! Another close friend, Mark Phillips, took professional wedding photos and did a stellar job.

Our biggest challenge: Money. The budget was definitely hard, especially considering our traveling expenses down to Texas, at hotels during and back up to Washington. We did it all for about 8k. For a crowd of 100, that's not too bad!

Figuring out the decorations was another iffy thing… since we were traveling 2100 miles to the wedding we couldn't make them ahead of time and take them! This made for a hectic, but very productive, few days leading up to the wedding. We just set aside a week to get everything prepared and visit with family before the big day. It was VERY busy but we pulled it all off!

Other than that, the planning process and our day couldn't have unfolded any better. Some small things didn't get taken care of, but they were quickly forgotten. We weren't worried about a thing the day of the wedding!

My favorite moment: This is hard to say… everything was such a blur. I had a mini-freakout right before I was supposed to walk down the aisle (and had to have a nice shot of whiskey), but it had more to do with the crowd than the actual ceremony. I felt unprepared! In all actuality, I kind of was. I had put off writing my vows for weeks… and didn't do it until mere minutes before the ceremony. I scrawled them out on a notepad, stuffed them in my bra and ran out to walk down the aisle!

After I walked down the aisle with my Dad, we realized my brother hadn't sent Clem (our dog) down the aisle as the ring bearer yet. So Brett and I both turned around and called "Clem!!" and he came running, in his handsome tuxedo and all, down the aisle and laid at our feet. That was my favorite part… it just felt like US at that point and I wasn't nervous anymore.

My advice for other offbeat brides: I've written about this before, but a clear vision of the atmosphere that you and your partner want to create is essential, along with a good dose of organization and quirky flair.

Have fun… be yourself and revel in the insane joy of the celebration. This is the one day that can be about no one other than yourself. Be bold, unstressed and excited! Your attitude will rub off on everyone around you, and you'll pat yourself on the back later for being so "in the moment".

Don't forget to look into the eyes of your loved one. You'll never see them the same way as you do that day. It's a powerful, love-affirming experience.

Some of our vendors: I had strong feelings about the dress I wanted. I knew I wanted it to be vintage-inspired and if possible, reminiscent of the cheery Mexican oilcloth fabric that you see on taqueria tabletops. I found this dress and fell in love with it, but of course it didn't come in my voluptuous size. So, I set up an Alchemy request on and the wonderful Christine, aka Funnel Cake Fashion contacted me with a bid and we really hit it off. Over the course of a few months she worked with me to pick fabric, do muslin fittings etc. to create my rad dress!

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Enough talk — show me the wedding porn: Click the photo below for more swingin' fun photos from Shrie & Brett's Texas-style, Mexican-infused wedding!

  1. Love that you had it in Texas and it was Mexican inspired…those couple of things have a special place in my heart…anyway, it all just looked so genuine and fun, good job from afar…AND — AAAWWW…I looked through some of your pictures and saw the one of the older couple where she's sitting on his lap (grandparents, maybe?). That is the sweetest thing.

  2. I was just the maid of honor in my cousin's wedding at that venue. Gorgeous! It's fun to see the same venue look awesome but with two completely different styles. Great job!

  3. We are planning on getting our wedding flowers (and wedding cheese) from Central Market too!

  4. Would you mind telling what etsy seller made the dress? It looks fabulous! I've been looking for something similar w/o the usual overwhelm cleavage.

  5. Yay congratulations Shrie! Looks really cool and fun. Love the colour everywhere!

  6. I LOVE Central Market!
    I love your pictures and all the great info!

  7. Super-rockin' dress and the caketoppers are adorable!

  8. Stuffing your vows in your bra and calling the dog down the aisle are both awesome things. The throne is bad ass, also!

  9. Adorable! I love the bride's dress!!!

  10. I love your dress! You look so beautiful! Your colors are amazing! :)

  11. Your dress is amazing. And those pies on your dessert table made my mouth water. The whole thing sounds amazing. Congrats!

  12. I adore every aspect of your wedding! Your dress is FABULOUS!

  13. Thanks guys… the whole thing wasn't perfect. It could have been more "offbeat" or more organized but is was so truly US that it didn't matter.

  14. please tell me about your cake! We live in the west texas town of El Paso and it of course is Mexican in theme…tell me how you came about your cake?

  15. Delicious Cakes in Addison TX. It tasted wonderful, but we were a *bit* disappointed in how it looked. Amazing people though!

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