Who says flower girls have to actually be girls?

Meet Dana, the 29-year-old male flower girl from this AMAZING puppetry wedding, which I will telling you much more about tomorrow. One more picture below!
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About Ariel Meadow Stallings
Author of Offbeat Bride: Creative Alternatives for Independent Brides, Ariel acts as the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire websites. She lives, loves, and dorks out hard in Seattle, WA.







Broke-Ass Bride said
WOW! What a great picture. Look how happy everyone around him is! I love it!
blablover5 said
While mine is female she is actually 21. We all like to joke how our wedding is gonna have a flower girl that is legal.
Larry Green said
NOT male flower girl . . . Male flower GUY!
Weddings on the Strand said
Flower Guys add an entertaining twist to the conditioned same old same old. Especially with a guy that looks to be as much fun as the lovable character in the colorful photo.
Amanda Young said
You've certainly got me intrigued!
Jill said
all the pictures from this wedding are AMAZING! it looks like the most fun wedding ever. kudos to the groom on the great puppets.
Pana said
I love this! We're having a 29 year old woman be our flower gal. It's awesome to see variations on the tradition!
Those puppets are BANANAS (in a good way).
DQ said
My 26 year old brother is so about to be asked to be my flowerguy (he was always going to be a bridesboy, this is even better!).
Bailey said
My fiance was the flower girl at our friends wedding. It really happened because they realized at the last minute that they had rose petals to put down the aisle but no way to get them their. So he shoved them into his pockets and the rest is very very funny history!
Cate said
Glad to see you back Ariel.
Erica said
My mom has a running joke with my teenage cousin – she's going to be the flower girl at his wedding. My dad was kind of a flower girl when he had to carry my terrified 4 year old self down a church aisle many years ago! He didn't have as much fun as this guy did, though!
Emma said
It helps if the guy is hot like this one.
What a fun idea!
Ariel said
Emma, I think more than the hotness it's the playfulness. This wouldn't work with a sulky emo 15-year-old hiding behind his bottle-black bangs.
…or actually, that would be fucking hilarious. I TAKE IT BACK! Bring on the emo flower boys at goth weddings!
Michelle said
This completely fucking RULES! I love how fun this is.
Now I wish I had a flower-dude at my wedding.
Dana Jay Bein said
That flower girl is me! I loved the opportunity to be a part of my friends' wedding in such an unconventional way. I'd do it again in a heartbeat!
T
Dana Jay Bein said
My last comment was incomplete and unconventional…
Bobby and Claire are such fun, open minded people. Their wedding was perfect representation of that and it proved memorable not just to the wedding party but also the guests and everyone involved.
Having been a flower girl is a nice thing to have on a resume.
Dana
Ariel said
Yay, Dana! After perusing Dana-the-flower-girl's website, I'm pleased to announce that he's single!
Aoife said
How long before he gets snapped up?
Tiffany @Weddiquette said
How freaking cute! LOL I would bid on him anyday…
Drea said
this picture makes me smile! looks like a fun loving kinda guy!
rachel said
props to the photographer!
Dana Jay Bein said
Wow! Hot, playful, fun loving… I want a piece of that guy myself!
(I sort of know him… I'll tell him about all of your generous compliments)
BTW – the photographer was amazing.
(I mean, so I hear.)
Emma said
Ha! This comment string is hilarious. Dana, if I wasn't taken myself, you'd be in trouble. I LOVE the idea and love the shots, too. I also agree; great moment between the photographer and the participant in order to capture the energy and happiness of that moment. Fantastic all around.
alison said
I'm trying to get my fiance friend to fly in from Germany for our wedding (as a surprise wedding gift for my FI). If he comes, he is SO the perfect flower guy. It's so on!!!
Bracket said
Totally impressed – the lightheartedness of it, the joy of everyone around him, his huge grin – awesome!! Apparently he's a Bostonian, I wonder if he'd come be the flower boy at my wedding….