The offbeat bride: Brit, Admin
Her offbeat partner: Cecilia, Accountant
Location & date of wedding: Historic building outside Boston, MA, October 13, 2007
What made our wedding offbeat: We made the decision early on that we would keep whatever traditional wedding elements we liked, and ditch those we didn't! This meant the white dress was out, along with "tossing" of anything, but the ceremony and reception with all our friends and family were in. We had a modest budget, and incorporated lots of DIY. I made all of our paper products, centerpieces and my bouquet. We also used rented audio equipment and mix cd's for the music and did all the decor ourselves. Other things that puzzled our families included walking down the aisle together, not having a bridal party and planning the entire thing ourselves.
Our biggest challenge: The process of planning was actually very smooth. We did encounter lots of confused expressions and questions from family members who weren't sure what a lesbian wedding would look like, or how it would work, but we always responded with openness and honesty, and I think in the end everyone "got" it.
The real challenge arrived when I came down with a flu-like virus two days before the wedding! I had a high fever and body aches and was put on a strict regime of aspirin, fluids and rest, which caused us to cancel our original rehearsal dinner plans. I was feeling a little better for the wedding day – but still decidedly sick!
My favorite moment: Hearing Cecilia's vows. Generally I am more the "words" person and she is more the "numbers" person. But her vows just completely blew me away. It was an incredible feeling that I'll never forget. A close second would be when we sat at our table for the reception and got to look around and really take it in – I couldn’t believe how beautifully everything came together!
My offbeat advice: Don't stress! Just allow yourself enough time to plan and do what feels right.
Enough talk — show me the wedding porn: Brit doesn't look green around the gills at all — well-rallied, for a feverish bride!
Comments on "Brit didn't let getting sick ruin her wedding!"
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zan
February 23rd, 2008 · 6:11 AM · #
Awwww. She did not look sick at all and the wedding looks so sweet.The pictures are so moving.
One Love Photo
February 23rd, 2008 · 10:33 PM · #
Love the Fall theme and the brown cake. Super cute!
tiny-robot
February 26th, 2008 · 12:27 PM · #
This lovely wedding is something I aspire to one day! Congrats and may you both have a long and happy marriage!
Brit
February 26th, 2008 · 3:19 PM · #
Hooray! Thanks so much for including us on your site Ariel! I'm a big fan
And thanks for all the kind words!
ctbride
February 27th, 2008 · 4:41 AM · #
Brit and Cecilia definitely deserve recognition for thier beautiful wedding. Cheers!
Erica
February 29th, 2008 · 8:44 AM · #
What a stunning wedding – Brit looks radiant, had you not said she was sick I would have never guessed it! I'd love to know the location you used (I'm in Boston too), so if you feel like sharing you could email me at akasha527@gmail.com
wenders
June 2nd, 2009 · 4:34 PM · #
Hi – we're looking to plan a wedding near Boston, too – what historical building was this one at?