Brides in glasses

Fashion Advice Ariel January 08, 2008 68

glasses

Any suggestions for how to "dress up" a bride with eyeglasses? I wear wire rimmed glasses that are a subtle cat-eye shape (can't be too crazy since I work in a hospital) and I can't wear contacts b/c of a medical condition. However, I find that glasses tend to "dress down" any fancy outfit I wear and I never see wedding photos where the bride has glasses. Any experience out there? -Kerith

Seems like there are two strategies you could use for wearing glasses at your wedding:

1. "My frames are a part of my face!" (ie, stick with the glasses you've got)
If you love your frames and feel like they're really part of your face and identity, or are planning a low-key, mellow wedding, stick with the glasses you've got. If you're a make-uppy type, you could go for extra dramatic eye make-up under your usual specs to add some flair. Dude: when was the last time you tried quality fake eyelashes? Bridget Bardot in spectacles anyone?

2. "My frames are part of my wedding outfit!" (ie, get new ones)
Wearing a pair of one-of-a-kind frames that aren't your usuals would make a great visual impact on your wedding — I say go for frames that coordinate with your dress. To be even more daring and dramatic, go for frames that coordinate with your flowers. Let your glasses be an extension of your bouquet: a visual splash! You could also go super light and understated — ie frameless lenses that barely show.

Want to see tons more brides in glasses?
Click here to see my whole collection of posts about bespectacled brides!

I realize that dramatic eyewear isn't everyone's cup of tea, but if you're worried about feeling like your everyday glasses make your fancy outfit feel too casual then a pair of fabulous frames could help. If you were in Seattle, I'd send you straight to Eyes on Fremont, my favorite eyeglass boutique. (Caveat: as we all know, designer frames are expensive as hell. You could almost spend almost as much on glasses as you do on a dress.)

Another thing to consider is having your photographer take some of your wedding shots angled slightly from above. Everyone who wears glasses knows the infamous "over the lenses" shot (alternately called "Bloggerface" or "MySpace pose"), and it's common for a reason: It's a great way to keep your glasses on, but let your eyes show.

Now, here are a few brides with glasses to inspire you…


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Comments (68)
  • I wear glasses too and I wish I could get a link to pictures brides in eyeglasses. I find it hard to visualize a hairstyle by looking at brides without glasses. Does anyone know links of more pictures of brides in eyeglasses from dresses to hairstyles?

  • Thank you!

    I saw those, but I was wondering if there are other websites that show hairstyles and dresses possibilities..

  • I love your site and page I just got married and am so glad I wore my glasses felt more like me when I looked at the pics. I hated all the 'helpful advice' I recieved before the wedding not to wear them.

  • Actually how can I send in a glasses pic?

  • I am contemplating wearing my glasses. I didnt wear them for the engagement photos and ended up with a headache by the end of the day :-( I can survive without my glasses but if a 2 hour photo shoot gave me a headache I cant imagine a whole day (and some of it includes signing). I cant stomach contacts at all and so might have to get some 'wedding glasses' Im in Korea at the moment and glasses are SUPER cheap. But I agree with the OP that they tend to dress down any outfit I wear. Oh well I have 9 months to figure it out. :-) Nice to read and see all your ideas. x

  • I am an optician, so I help people all the time who want nice glasses for their weddings and are considering contacts because they are unsure about thier frames. It makes me sad that people still think that glasses are "bad" or "nerdy." I just wrote an article about picking out the perfect frame for you and your wedding. You can read it on my blog at http://www.thechartreusebride.com

  • I'm totally going to wear my glasses. They have been part of my face since fourth grade and I can't stick shit in my eyes! Not to mention having red puffy eyes from new contacts seems all around less attractive to me.

  • I want to wear my glasses too…. but i have transition lenses and our wedding is outside – won't i look sunglasses-y in every shot? I don't want to change my glasses lenses before the wedding because i lack the low-glare…. I think my crazy hair and fringe might be the worse for wear element here… :P

  • I want to wear my glasses too…. but i have transition lenses and our wedding is outside – won't i look sunglasses-y in every shot? I don't want to change my glasses lenses before the wedding because i lack the low-glare…. I think my crazy hair and fringe might be the worse for wear element here… :P

  • Anyone in the NYC area should check out Fabulous Fanny's on 9th St btwn 1st and 2nd Aves. I've been getting my glasses there for like 10 years and they are, in fact, fabulous. They've got a million styles of vintage and retro frames (I recommend just getting someone who works there to help you, since otherwise it will take hours!).

    They're really reasonably priced, too. Out of 5 or 6 pairs I've gotten there, only one cost more than $100, and those were incredible red, rhinestone-encrusted frames I got for prescription sunglasses.

  • I think its sad that people don't want to wear glasses on their wedding day. I am a licensed optician, and glasses are a huge part of my life. It's all about finding the perfect frame and then rocking it! I wrote an article on my blog (http://thechartreusebride.com/2009/12/wearing-gla… which talks about finding the right glasses for your face shape, prescription, etc. <A few tips from the article- get Anti-Reflective coating for pictures, and no transition lenses!>

  • First off, I love the site Ariel, a friend recently directed here, and you've got great info, even though I'm a more "traditional" bride than I am "off-beat." (not that it matters, all weddings are tacky anyway, right? I'm a quick learner!)

    Anyhow, I hadn't even given a thought to my glasses at the wedding, but thinking of it now, my grayish blue frames will probably not "go"! I want to mention for anyone reading the comments here though, another friend recently told me about a website for inexpensive frames & lenses. It's www.zennioptical.com and they have glasses starting at like $8! I wouldn't imagine spending $100+ for a pair of glasses, but $20 or $30 sounds like a deal & a half to me! Just thought I'd pass the site along for other 4-eyes brides out there!

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