A steampunk wedding

December 3rd, 2007 · Wedding porn · 31 comments

One of my favorite things about running this website is exposure to fabulous freaks I might otherwise not encounter. I mean, I know all about my brand of weird (left coast second gen hippie/retired raver/etc) but it’s such a treat to see other delicious flavors of non-traditional.

Case in point: Siouxzi Rodeman and Alan Donnelly’s Steampunk wedding in Chicago. (Some of you may remember Siouxzi — she’s the one who had that nightmare run-in at Macy’s a few months ago.)

I was aware of Steampunk as a literary genre, but only just barely and not as a full-blown lifestyle/fashion thang. Consider me now educated and inspired.

I completely fell in love with neo-victorian aesthetic once I started poking around in Siouxzi’s wedding photos — her wedding hat! The custom ties for the bridesmaids and groomsmen! The cakes! The minister’s monoggle! All the brass and the corsetry and the gears and springs! What an awesome visual treat.

The fact that Souxzi was able to organize this stunning, stylish wedding in three months (while also grieving her mother’s recent passing) is totally mind-boggling and is a sharp ruler on the knuckles of anyone who says you can’t plan a wedding in less than six months. Congratulations, Souxzi!

But oh, there’s more. So much more …

If you want to feel like you were actually there, check out this wedding video:


Siouxzi and Alans Wedding Ceremony from crank! on Vimeo.

twue loveIf you’re curious about steam fashion, it looks like this LJ community is a good place to start poking around.

And when you’re ready to immerse yourself in hundreds of photos, you can go here for shots from the wedding, and here for details like cake-toppers, hats, invites, etc.


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31 responses to this entry
  • 1

    Rebecca

    December 3rd, 2007 · 4:36 PM · #

    Oh…WOW. Congrats, Siouxzi- that is simply fantastic.

  • 2

    Hannah

    December 3rd, 2007 · 11:13 PM · #

    Steampunk is my favorite literary genre and fashion movement, so I’m giddy at the thought of an entire wedding based on that aesthetic.

    Also, congrats–this was BoingBoinged!

  • 3

    snowblog » mottohochzeit

    December 4th, 2007 · 12:07 AM · #

    […] das flickr-set umfasst 502, der über 1000 fotos und einen film gibts nach dem klick. (via, […]

  • 4

    EH

    December 4th, 2007 · 2:26 AM · #

    His boutonnière matches her tattoo.

  • 5

    BodyTwo ModBlog › Tattooed Brides

    December 4th, 2007 · 5:04 AM · #

    […] morning’s boingboing led me to a post on a steampunk-themed wedding on the Offbeat Bride blog. Outside of being tattoo-prevalent in general, I noticed they have a few […]

  • 6

    kaleigh

    December 4th, 2007 · 6:34 AM · #

    As the sister of the groom (and mom of the two shortest members of the wedding party), I can say that this was one of the most heartfelt weddings I’ve ever attended. Alan and Siouxzi are a unique couple, of course, but the outward trappings gave all the gathered friends and family just a taste of their genuine affection for each other. We’re so happy to have Siouxzi as a part of our family, and I was very honored to have been a part of their special day.

  • 7

    Lucy

    December 4th, 2007 · 7:29 AM · #

    WOW, that’s really a wonderful wedding and celebration! So original and seems to capture the spirit of the happy couple!

  • 8

    Nimisha

    December 4th, 2007 · 12:08 PM · #

    That’s pretty much amazing - and so well played out. Gorgeous dress! I love Steampunk.

  • 9

    Len

    December 4th, 2007 · 12:21 PM · #

    This site helped me with a good outline to the type of things that can be put on for steampunk.

  • 10

    Ariel

    December 4th, 2007 · 12:35 PM · #
  • 11

    solaana

    December 4th, 2007 · 2:26 PM · #

    That is the coolest wedding I’ve ever seen. I didn’t even know steampunk existed until now, but that dress is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen! Ever!

  • 12

    Miss Jennifer

    December 4th, 2007 · 4:55 PM · #

    I’m looking at these pictures and just staring in amazement because my fiance and I are planning a steampunk wedding…also while looking through this couple’s lovely pictures I realized that they chose the same color scheme and also used blue hydrangeas, which is what I am going to use in my wedding.
    It looks amazing all put together.

  • […] Things to read as you plan your very own steampunk wedding. […]

  • 14

    Windsong

    December 4th, 2007 · 5:19 PM · #

    What a beautiful wedding–and what an awesome idea! I with the both of them the greatest happiness together. :)

  • 15

    Bear

    December 4th, 2007 · 11:20 PM · #

    I’m very glad that the bad experience didn’t ruin this day for you.

    I’m a bit misty eyed. You two are very lucky. May you get everything that you diserve from your relaitonship and more.

  • 16

    Ariel

    December 5th, 2007 · 7:36 AM · #
  • […] Jump to Comments I randomly found myself on Offbeat Bride earlier and as well as the steampunk wedding, I am really impressed/inspired (not that I’m getting married just yet!) by Mr and Mrs […]

  • 18

    siouxzi

    December 5th, 2007 · 7:29 PM · #

    Thanks everyone for the lovely comments. So many things managed to come together at the last moment. There are almost too many favorite moments to mention which is as it should be. The best though, was seeing my dad, smiling through it all.

    Miss Jennifer: Think twice about hydrangeas. They are beautiful, but they die quickly. The ones we left in the florists water until literally right before the ceremony were still wilty and sad looking by the end. It’s not a horrible thing, but if you want something to stay really big and bright ask around for what might be better.

    Bear: The Macy’s experience was indeed horrid, but kudo’s to Caroline for more than making up for it. Nothing like having a group of extraordinarily talented women dote over your dress for an afternoon. If I had to do it again, I wouldn’t change a thing. :D

  • 19

    Tanya

    December 6th, 2007 · 9:08 AM · #

    I think I just had a fashion orgasm over this wedding.

    Wow.

  • 20

    Miss Jennifer

    December 6th, 2007 · 3:14 PM · #

    siouxzi…I think I’m doing to used dried hydrangeas or silk ones because I found some that are brighter colored and I wanted to use a really bright blue and, so far, I haven’t seen where I can buy them fresh.

  • 21

    Miss Jennifer

    December 6th, 2007 · 3:15 PM · #

    sorry, crazy typos– “doing to used” should be “going to use”

  • 22

    kfly

    December 7th, 2007 · 1:33 PM · #

    I LOVE everything about this wedding!

    Where was the wedding held?

  • 23

    siouxzi

    December 8th, 2007 · 2:19 PM · #

    Kfly: The location was the Loft above Fizz Bar & Grill in Chicago

  • 24

    Alie K

    December 8th, 2007 · 4:55 PM · #

    I just LOVE how their hair matched!!

  • […] just turned me on to the sub-culture that is steampunk (due to this wedding on her site) and I’ve been totally fascinated for the last couple days. I recognize the […]

  • 26

    Angela

    December 9th, 2007 · 7:48 PM · #

    Totally in love with every aspect of your wedding. While I am a sick traditionalist, I am a self-proclaimed littérateur and am fascinated with your wedding ideas. It looks like you both had a wonderful time!

  • 27

    Offbeat Bride | Brides behaving badly online

    December 10th, 2007 · 5:37 AM · #

    […] with preserved dead squirrels on their black wedding cake. Soooo not my style, but hey: neither is steampunk. I still think it’s […]

  • 28

    may

    January 3rd, 2008 · 7:51 PM · #

    Souxie and Alan,

    Many congratulations and thanks for the inspiration!

  • 29

    Clare

    March 13th, 2008 · 3:43 PM · #

    what a beautiful wedding you had. I love it. Congratulations!

  • 30

    gothic wedding shop

    March 26th, 2008 · 2:56 AM · #

    Beautiful pictures, well coordinated. i love it!

  • 31

    Ariel

    April 22nd, 2008 · 9:25 AM · #

    For those looking for Steampunk wedding resources, be sure to check out this thread in the forums. (You’ll need to be logged in to view it.)

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