The trouble with engagement rings
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About Ariel Meadow Stallings
Author of Offbeat Bride: Creative Alternatives for Independent Brides, Ariel acts as the publisher of all the Offbeat Empire websites. She lives, loves, and dorks out hard in Seattle, WA.







Sarah said
really fascinating…I'd love to see more coverage of how "offbeat" couples handle this dilemma!
bratzy said
before my fiance and I got engaged we had matching commitment rings, he wore his on the 'wedding' finger of his right hand and I wore mine on my middle finger.
Now we're engaged I have an engagement ring and he wears his commitment ring now on his 'wedding' finger of his left hand.
I don't wear mine any more after my cat swallowed it and poo'ed it out – I can't face it knowing where it's been!