Non-sucky wedding rings
While my sweetie and I DO want to exchange rings, we DON’T want to spend a lot of money on them, and we have no interest in traditional, mainstream wedding rings. We want something simple, different, and not made out of gold. We live in a town that doesn’t have anything like that, so online is our best bet. But once we start looking around for wedding bands, all we find are expensive, boring, overly-decadent gold and diamond style rings… There’s just too much online to know where to start! -Sara
I applaud your decision to go the non-diamond, inexpensive route for your wedding rings. Diamonds are grossly overpriced, and of course there’s that whole blood diamond thing, so you’re so much better off going for either a different stone or no stone at all.
First things first: are you SURE there aren’t any custom jewelry makers in your neck of the woods? There’s nothing more awesome than designing your own bands, and if you find a good jewelry maker they can usually work within your budget. Plus, it’s cool to support a local artisan.
Here’s a first tip: Don’t look for “wedding rings” — they always cost more!
That said, if there really aren’t any around, you’re right: there are TONS of online options. Here’s a first tip: Don’t look for “wedding rings” — they always cost more! There’s this strange phenomenon of somehow if it has to do with a wedding it costs twice as much. Seriously. This isn’t just for rings, it’s for dresses, flowers, suits, chair rentals, everything. It’s a total racket. So when shopping online for rings, don’t search for “wedding bands.” Just look for rings that you like.
That said, here are a few links to get you started:
•If you want to go really kitchy, it doesn’t get much better than these Silver “Diamond” Rings from the Netherlands. This is the ultimate “fuck you” to anyone who asks about your diamond ring, and at $129 and $199, they’re certainly a middle finger to the bloated prices of your average De Beers solitaire.
• Titanium rings
Titanium rings are harder than gold, silver, or platinum, and less likely to dent or get dinged. They don’t tarnish, and are cheaper than platinum. There are lots of options out there in the $100 range, like celtic designs or engraved bands. If you want really simple and affordable, something like these plain bands may be the way to go.
• Tungsten rings
Tungsten Carbide is the metal used for Carbide tips on saws and other cutting tools. It’s not as cheap as Titanium, but really shiny and almost impervious to scratches! And as Chris Pirillo wrote about his Tungsten ring, “My wedding ring is the most ultimate wedding ring on the planet. Very strong, very tough, very durable, very scratch and tarnish resistant, very unique, very happily stuck on my finger.”
• Eco rings
If you’re an environmental/eco-conscious couple, you could consider getting wooden rings. They’re in the $200-range and are remarkably durable and gorgeous. Another option is Green Karat, which sells ecologically responsible jewelry. Sadly, they’re somewhat expensive.
• Geeky rings
Also a bit more expensive but perfect for computer nerds, you have the binary rings. Oh and of course there are Elven rings out there for the Tolkien geeks.
If you’re looking for even more outlandish designs, check out The Carrot Box blog, which is dedicated to unique rings.
Good luck, Sara! And keep me posted about what you end up getting — I’d love to see pictures!
Comments
23 responses to this entryElaina
January 25th, 2007 · 3:36 PM · #My fiance and I are going to the wedding ring workshop, where we’re going to make our own rings. A jewler coaches you through melting the metals, shaping, and polishing. It’s about as expensive as a wedding ring set (engagement ring, and both bands). We’re super excited!
Ariel
January 25th, 2007 · 3:38 PM · #Wow, Elaina — what a cool concept! More info at http://www.weddingringworkshop.com
Elisa Camahort
January 25th, 2007 · 5:55 PM · #My fiance and I designed my engagement ring with Brilliant Earth, a San francisco company that makes rings with conflict-free Canadian diamonds, recycled metals, and who donates 5% of their profits to a charity in Africa. It was not cheap, no doubt, but I love it
TheGlimmering
January 27th, 2007 · 6:44 AM · #How about stainless steel? A plain or black anodized stainless steel band with a CZ tension setting runs $5.50, $2.00 for a plain band. I’ve seen many around $4.00 with tribal etching, and there are rainbow anodized or eternity bands with rainbow hued stones for $12.00 tops.
Julia
February 14th, 2007 · 7:15 AM · #I like some of these ideas - thanks. I do wonder why you would get a ring in order to say “fuck you” to some one who’s just trying to make friendly conversation. Why not get a ring because you like it, and accept that some people ask about your ring because they’re trying to be nice. Thanks.
Ideagirl
February 23rd, 2007 · 11:31 AM · #Check out http://www.GreenKarat.com. That’s where we’re getting ours. Everything they use is either recycled (the gold, platinum, and white diamonds), or lab-created (all the other gemstones). We’re getting custom rings, but some of the non-custom rings are way affordable, and there’s the added bonus that they don’t mess with the environment at all (apparently this place even uses wind power for its offices!) and you don’t get “conflict diamonds” or other jewels mined by people in the Third World who live like slaves.
Ideagirl
February 23rd, 2007 · 11:38 AM · #I just noticed that Green Karat was already mentioned above. But it says they’re expensive!!! What?! We ended up going with custom rings, but they have gold wedding bands as low as $125: http://www.greenkarat.com/deta.....id=WBRG001
Also a bunch in the $400-$500 range, from totally normal looking: http://www.greenkarat.com/deta....._id=RCG002 to totally offbeat:
http://www.greenkarat.com/deta.....t_id=CD007
I dunno, that seems reasonable to me. Particularly in this world of $5000 or $10,000 diamond solitaires (ack!!! what a waste of money!)
Ariel
February 23rd, 2007 · 11:46 AM · #Good point! When I was going through the gallery, all I was seeing was rings in the $500-$2k range — thanks for pointing out their more affordable bands, as well. Not sure how I missed those!
Camille
March 3rd, 2007 · 11:28 AM · #My fiance decided he wanted something in a “geek metal” so he’s going with something from titaniumrings.com. They’ve got a LOT of styles from plain to funky. Prices are midrange, I’d say…not cheap but not insanely spendy.
sally
March 15th, 2007 · 11:09 AM · #check out rings by sally brock of fancy in seattle:
http://www.fancyjewels.com/wedding.php
i like her binary ring even better that green karat, and her robot bands make me so so happy. (also, i am a different sally than the sally who owns the store, lest you think the poor girl is running around the internet shamelessly self-promoting)
Dana
June 26th, 2007 · 12:46 PM · #We had a heck’va time finding a ring. We found a local jewler who was going to design something for us, but as soon as I said “wedding” & “engagement”, he lost any sort of creativity. I had pictures of rings by Jamie Joseph & Pippa Small as inspiration…and he went round and round with me, telling me I couldn’t do something like that and it had to be gold and it had to be either sapphires or diamonds (because of how “hard” the stones are).
I don’t like being told I “can’t” do something, and eventually gave in and just bought a Jamie Joseph ring that’s gold, silver & labradorite. I will wear a wedding band once we get married (moving the engagement ring to my right hand). I love my ring because it is entirely me, even though it wasn’t designed specifically for me.
I have found a few really cool designers on etsy (I wish I’d found this earlier)…
PowderMillStudio makes lovely rings, and this silver ring based on a tree branch is one of my favorites {& if you ask her, she can make it in gold}:
etsy’s a nice compromise–you can support an artist directly, but still buy online.
Dana
July 24th, 2007 · 3:57 AM · #If you’re looking for something cheap and simple, check out Something Silver - they have amazing rings, even some fantastic CZ sets. One of the CZ bridal sets we have our eye on is only $38, which is about what many other sites are charging just for the silver band!
They also have many interesting men’s bands for 45-65 bucks - my fiance wants something with a little more flair than the average band, but still simple, and many of their bands fit the bill in that department.
Good luck!
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Amy
November 5th, 2007 · 8:51 AM · #My fiance mined sunstones in Oregon and had an artist cut and set them for him. It cost him the trip (for which he got a great story), and very little money to pay the artist since he also gave him a lot of the stones he mined for his use when he finished my ring.
More info:
http://www.dustdevilmining.com/
We’ll be exchanging simple titanium bands for the wedding.
Ashby
February 16th, 2008 · 8:44 AM · #My fiance and I were in a similar situation, and after some pretty frustrating searching stumbled upon something perfect for us. We hike a lot, and so Jesse found an artist who makes beautiful, simple jewelery out of found stones, and had her set a tiny pebble we found hiking into recycled silver. We also had her make the band so that it nested with my little wedding band, and she made his band while she was at it - all 3 rings for less than $450. Wahoo!
Alyanna
February 27th, 2008 · 8:25 PM · #Okay, these are definitely not cheap - but if you want something unique and absolutely beautiful, check out the mirror-image mokume rings by George Sawyer. My fiance and I got these for our wedding bands and we LOVE them! (The images on the website don’t do them justice - if you’re near one of the stores that sell them, I’d suggest checking them out in person.)
http://www.georgesawyer.com/Mirror-Image.asp
Jen
March 29th, 2008 · 12:38 PM · #I have an acquaintance who makes titanium rings and when I saw his etsy shop I was blown away. They’re really quite pretty and really fun! I’ll be sure to leave his etsy shop link around for my boyfriend in the future
http://www.etsy.com/shop.php?user_id=5232205
Michelle
April 3rd, 2008 · 1:34 PM · #http://WWW.RARU.COM!!!
I LOVE this site. My best friend and I both got our engagment and wedding bands off this site. It does a lot of celtic stuff, but they let you design your own ring, celtic or otherwise, and it is really reasonably priced, especially if you don’t like diamonds or have an heirloom stone to use. They do a great job, they are friendly, quick and affordable.
intimeoflilacs
April 22nd, 2008 · 6:49 PM · #I met a couple one time, and the husband had taken a piece of a canoe they had had an early date in on a lake and moulded the metal into two rings for their wedding rings. It brought a tear to my eye hearing the story..
Amy
June 9th, 2008 · 11:04 PM · #I got my hubby a tungsten ring for his wedding band. It’s gorgeous. I wish my platinum one was as scratch resistant to his.
Here is a link to his tungsten band. I just love how shiny it is in the light!
Andrea
June 30th, 2008 · 2:04 PM · #I’m not sure if you’ve ever heard of these guys, but Little King Jewelry in New York does some really gorgeous custom work. I’m sure they’re far from inexpensive, but…drool!
Ivy
July 7th, 2008 · 4:51 PM · #I have a question - does anyone know the name of a jewelry designer/artist who designs engagement rings using wood and diamonds - rough cut stones. She also did bracelets and necklaces. I remember her being based in New York. The pieces were really beautiful. Our computer crashed and they weren’t able to get all the memory back so I can’t find her.